Update on Audiogon Member Almarg


I have some very sad news and information to share.

Al ( @almarg ), through his wife Margaret, asked me to post the following...

{"The attached letter to you was dictated at his bedside to me earlier today. I hope I got his words down precisely as he desired."}

"Unfortunately Al has an extremely aggressive form of Mantle Cell Lymphoma coupled with a mutation of gene TP53 (known as tumor suppressor gene). He has received outstanding advanced treatment with the latest and greatest chemo drugs at Smilow Cancer Hospital at Yale in New Haven. Unfortunately it appears that he only has a few weeks to live.

Please feel free to post a substantive update [on Audiogon]. He has not been able to do that because of his condition. Please indicate that he has enjoyed solving problems, researching others,’ and learning a good deal himself while developing his answers.

He and I wish everyone all the best of health and success in audio endeavors, in that order.

Al [and Margaret]

September 9, 2020"

I will post my very personal response tomorrow.
david_ten
I echo @grannyring 's sentiment. I miss his respect for other members and their opinions. I feel the loss on this forum. He was a true gentleman.


I so miss his comments here on the Gon. We would do well to mimic his kind and professional manner here. He was the perfect example of how posters should handle themselves here. A gem of a person!
I am very saddened by this news.  I have been away so long.  Al was awesome, I looked forward to all his conversations.  Margaret and family God Bless you.
I  recently found out when AL's nephew called me about speakers. Very very sad news. I always enjoyed my phone calls and interactions with AL, he was always a true gentleman. He had a sharp wit while never being unkind and his insights were always spot on. One of the brightest and most balanced of minds. Obviously I was always flattered and appreciative of his support for my work and I wish I had a chance to meet Al in person, he was one of the truly good guys!
Tonight I was reading a thread about interconnect & speaker cable capacitance and inductance here on Agon. I looked over to the left and the date was from back in 2009. And, to no surprise interesting posts by you know who, Almarg. Always enjoy reading his replies.  Thanks Al, RIP.  https://forum.audiogon.com/discussions/interconnect-inductance-vs-capacitance 
Al
I have frequently visited this forum over many years, and I have always admired the depth of your knowledge and the grace with which you shared it on this forum to those in need. I am truly saddened to learn of your aggressive Mantle cell lymphoma.  As has been stated before, you are a gentleman’s gentleman, a true mensch amongst men. My heart goes out to you and your beloved wife. 
Al has been an inspiration and guiding light here on Audiogon.
To you Al, and your family and friends, I send my heartfelt best wishes for strength and peace.
Al has always set a standard on this forum the rest of us could aspire to in helping those he often doesn’t even know with his technical knowledge and generous nature. He teaches many of us various aspects of engineering and was always humble in how he so willingly shared his knowledge. A rare shining light in today’s online communities.

I wish Al, Margaret and the rest of his family my warmest wishes, hoping for a miraculous turnaround in his health. While I haven’t had the pleasure of knowing Al outside of his active participation in audio forums he helps to bring out the best of other members and I hope and pray it will continue.
Al was one of my beacons of light on this forum. I will miss him greatly.

Thank you for your insightful and knowledgeable posts.
Wow! I just saw this. i have been here since 2000 and always knew almarg as a poster with knowledge and very helpful and always pleasant. Thanks Al for all the good camaraderie over the years. You have been a shining light of reason and good advice to people such as me. I value you highly and pray the best for you and your family. I join with Douglas Schroeder and others in my prayers for you  come to the saving grace knowledge and to be completely healed as well. Thanks for all your help Al. 
arte
I am sad to hear this. Al is one the great, magnanimous audiogon posters, taking time to research answers to a lot technical questions. I certainly appreciate him helping me avoid a mistake.  
I didn’t get to know Al like many of you have, but he is obviously a fine gentleman and much loved.  I pray for his comfort and strength and the same for his loved ones.  We all hope for a best outcome.
Al and Marg have been wonderful! I am praying that the USC studies might have a chance to work!!Doug
So sorry to hear of this news. May Al & his family be blessed & supported in these trying times.
Thank you David for letting us know. He is a true role model of knowledge with humility. My prayers go out for him & his family during this very trying time. 
Al is the best of us.  Highly knowledgeable, never abrasive and always willing to help.   Al is the epitome of a class act.  You will be sorely missed, but never forgotten.
@david_ten thank you for initiating this thread.

I’ve had the privilege of becoming friends with Al over the past 15 or so years. Of course, Audiogon provided the connection, but we’ve conversed on topics audio and otherwise, back and forth, over time. Always wished we could do an audio show together in NYC, as it would have proved a day of days, but he wasn’t comfortable traveling into the city from a physical and mental standpoint. Nothing would be truer than to say Al embodied all the plaudits folks have given him in here.

Of course, Al was neither foolish nor naive. Those who shilled in these forums, acted in a completely inappropriate or insulting manner, put forth ridiculous theories and ideas, pumped themselves up, or put down others engendered a strong sense of disgust in Al. But he never let it show here, even to the very few who had the temerity to attack him. He carried himself with absolute dignity, grace, and decorum, and though he possessed an obvious sense of the beauty and emotion of music, normally let the facts and numbers speak for themselves. He also had tremendous respect and fondness for many here, as well.

God bless you, Al. Though I’ve made a lot of friends here over the years, and have come to like even more, no one came within a thousand miles of what you provided here to all of us. Wishing you and Marge comfort and peace...
Gentle Jesus, meek and mild,
Look upon a little child,
Pity my simplicity,
Suffer me to come to Thee...

Godspeed Al
Among the posters on this forum he is unique.

God be with him and his family.




Wishing Al a Refuah Schleimah, which in Hebrew means a speedy and complete physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual healing.
I haven't been posting hear long, but been reading and learning for a while, and Al has a vast knowledge that was easy to understand. We should all try to be more like him, never a negative word, even though there were times that I didn't know how he could be nice to some of the comments he received. What a class act.
Deepest condolences to Al and his family. Al brought to this forum what all Audiogon followers and contributors should aspire to - wisdom, grace, patience, and humility. Thank you Al for enlightening us and making us all better audiophiles.
@aschuh I have forwarded the information you shared and the link to Margaret. Thank you so much. - David.
Terrible news. I joined Audiogon only a few months ago. I've spent a good part of this pandemic reading old threads, looking to expand my audio knowledge. I learned quickly to look for Al's posts. His were always the most informative and helpful to me. I marveled at the depth and breadth of his knowledge and experience, but I was more impressed by the care and thoughtfulness with which he answered. My condolences to Al and his family.
I am praying for you and your Margaret Al. Your thoughtful and informed contributions to this forum are surpassed by no one over my 20 years a member of this site. Know you are a beloved human a true mench, the very best to you in your battle, we are all rooting for you.
Prayers for the family. Very sad news indeed.  I know I can speak for all of us. Al is a true gentleman and I always enjoyed reading his very informative posts. He took the time to give great detailed responses that most of us never would think about.  he will be missed greatly. 
I wept when I read this sad news. Plus, plus, to all the eloquent statements to you Al—May God bless you and Margaret—I pray for a miracle for you. mikirob 
This is very sad news! Al’s wisdom and gracious thoughts will surely be missed on this forum.
May my prayers and gratitude go out to you and Margaret. Your knowledge and kindness will always be with us my friend.
Very sad. Al has given me lots of personal help and advice with issues since signing up here.
My thoughts are with Al, Margaret & their family.
@ david_ten - This is very sad news. My best wishes to Al and Margaret. It is a delicate matter to identify breakthrough treatment options for late stage patients, but there are potentially significant improvements for mantle cell lymphoma in clinical development. The following study is recruiting patients: https://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT03088878?term=Oncternal&cntry=US&draw=2&rank=3
I am quite familiar with the program - the science is excellent, discovery program comes from UC San Diego, and my understanding is that clinical benefit is, to the extent that data have been released, quite meaningful. You may want to share this with Margret and Al.
All the best!
I never had the pleasure of meeting or speaking to Al In person but over all the long years I’ve been on this forum, I was always impressed and inspired by Al’s depth of knowledge and his never ending willingness to help a fellow audiophile. He was one of the main reasons this forum worked and he was ALWAYS a gentleman. Thank you Al for all your years of service and my sincerest sympathies to you and your family. Mike 
«Giant makes noise only when they fall....»- Groucho Marx

My heart go with his family and for him i hope if not a miracle at least a peaceful end.....
Al personally came to my defense whenever I was demeaned.  And for that I will never forget him.
Listen folks, Al is not dead. Let’s keep a hopeful spirit. The Bible says God listen to the prayers of the faithful. If all of us say a prayer for Al and ask God for mercy, He will listen and Al will post again.  I strongly believe this. Let’s get on our knees and beg Him. 
Al has always been one of the most knowledgeable, generous and gentlemanly persons on this forum - often going out of his way to do his own independent research on behalf of the person seeking advice. In this forum, he was the best of the best.
May God bless you all.
I send the best to all and wish strength.  Though I did not have access to Al and his kind generosity and wisdom... It is nice to read how someone has made a difference...affecting those around him in positive ways; leaving a space to be remembered...