I enjoy the variety of subject matter and most opinions but I wish Audiogon would offer an "ignore" feature, and a "like" button.
Do people tire of audio forums?
Not sure how much interest this will generate since members who've left audio forums, or at least this forum aren't here to comment.
Anyway, I've been one to come and go from forums of all kinds over many years, this for any number of reasons. So recently I've been lurking again, checking in perhaps once a week, came across a recent post where a member stated he was leaving because he felt unappreciated. Got me to thinking how much this sentiment enters into people decisions to participate or not participate in this forum, or any other forum for that matter.
Based on my observations and experience, being unappreciated and/or underappreciated is inherent to the hobby/obsession. Unless one has very wide experience with equipment in their home system or systems they have only limited empirical evidence to offer. For instance I'm exclusively involved with SET, custom build and modification. only limited numbers of members have interest in this, so appreciation only goes so far.
Seems to me, a whole lot of people on these forums speak on things they've only heard from others, or have very limited experience with, suppose this makes them feel important. And then some are provocateurs, get their need to be appreciated fulfilled in this manner, guess arguing feels like appreciation for them. Based on my observations the need to feel appreciated is important for people both to continue to participate and in decisions to leave.
I've also been perusing some past posts where members are leaving and remarking about how audiogon was a more friendly place at some time in the past. I don't recall a time when that was true, there have always been bully's, provocateurs, self important people here. I believe this nostalgia comes from a time when this individual was still making many new audio discoveries. I suspect many of us settle down into satisfactory and/or dream systems and no longer have much interest in new discoveries. I for one don't see this forum ever changing much, members come and go, always newbies and oldies, same arguments and agreements go on and on.
For me, interest in talking about audio waxes and wanes, never get tired of listening to music over a fine system, just get tired of talking and thinking about everything that goes into creating and maintaining a system. Feeling like you're repeating yourself and seeing the same old posts gets stale for me, so I leave. If past repeats itself I'll likely find audio talk to be of interest at some point in the future.
Just interested if others have similar experiences or observations.
@knotscott , sure thing. 😉 |
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IMO many members take this site and brand loyalty too seriously. ARC//MAC/Magnepan/JBL/Vandersteen and others are viewed by many as sacred cows. We even have a longtime member that worships Ohm loudspeakers and praises them at almost every opportunity? Currently I think Burmester is making some of the best sounding electronics/speakers but I have no love or worship for the company it’s just another audio component that is open to criticism. |
@knotscott Spot on! Between individual preference and plethora of available equipment, topologies, rooms, etc. every situation unique, makes it more difficult to find commonaliity. I recently decided against selling my 1970 MGBGT when out of this world great deal on rebuilt engine came my way, MG and classic English car forums in general are probably the most genial forums I've been involved in. I also have an Alfa, Ducati and Mustang GT, Alfa and Ducati forums a bit more variable, Mustang forums full of complete idiots, reflective of no end of crash videos of this car!
So, the real reason I left the audio forums is that I suffered a shoulder dislocation and torn rotator cuff Feb 3rd, don't ask! Anyway, most painful orthopedic injury ever experienced! No desire to even listen to my system for months, out of sight, out of mind. So then I get back to listening, but desire to engage with forums didn't return, this is when I began to question my need to engage. I now see it as having been something of an addiction, not a day could pass without checking in on forums. Now that I'm more aware of this don't want return to that. I see that some of my contributions weren't worth the effort, sort of like meaningless small talk. Going forward try to limit posting to more important contributions. I also expect to have less interaction as the rate of change in my system continues to decay. Does rate of change in our systems correlate to level of engagement with audio forums? |
+1 to a "Like" button on this forum! @sns sorry bout your shoulder. Had a severe should injury too...absolutely the worst location for any injury I’ve had...that damn joint has a huge range of motion compared to most, the rest of the arm and hands are attached to it so almost anything you do causes movement and pain to the shoulder.
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@secretguy +1 @jpwarren58 +1 Dude, that's so keen and so funny, at the same time. @sns Apparently so. I've seen it a few times thru the years. Sometimes thay come back, sometimes not. Anyone remember @tubebuffer ? Sometimes I used to have to literally stop and wipe my tears, so I could keep reading. Someone said onetime, that he was really Millercarbon's alter ego. Lol. Where the hell are you, @millercarbon ? |
@ticat In many cases this may be best route, why add pithy post, may help to decrease the fatigue.
For popcorn and hot dog lovers, I used to enjoy the show, even engaged a few times. If its a new topic this can still provide entertainment, but another objective vs subjective or snake oil battle, NOT! |
@laps Here, Here on the Ignore feature and Like button. Great ideas. |
@garebear Dude, everything has changed. |
@garebear To me, it’s interesting that the climate around here kind of reflects the changes going on in the world. I know it does here in the US. Perhaps we should ask ourselves, are we part of the solution or part of the problem? In regards to people taking it personal when someone doesn’t actually take their well intentioned and well informed advice personally, I say: have any of you folks ever raised a human being before? Dude, get over it. Life is too short to get wound up over somethiing as menial as that. For that matter, perhaps a little further down the road after they’ve spent way too much chasing tha dream, I think is the way we say it, they’ll finally figure it out. With your helpful input. Kind of like, when you raise a human. I’m a long time member and I was a Lurker for many years before I ever actively participated only to discover that it’s a blast. But it sure as hell wouldn’t be if I put myself thru that kind of torture. Someone said, years ago, I think I’ve heard this a couple of times: How, the roles we play around here, or the way our personality is reflected is similar to the clique we were a part of in high school. That that’s the way things tend to play out around here. I would tend to agree. |
There are members here who I've found to be not only consistently helpful but unfailingly patient, kind and generous. They are the reason I continue to participate. There are others I do my best to ignore. Political diatribes and personal attacks severely try my patience but they do not keep me from abandoning the forum. Reading posts asking such questions as "What is the best DAC"? by people who apparently opt to ignore the search feature gets tiresome but I don't imagine such posts will stop appearing any time soon. For me, the positives of Audiogon forums outweigh the negatives. I've tried other audio forums but the level of participation has been much, much lower than on Audiogon, so I haven't stuck with them. |
To me, the question is more than just loss of interest in audio fora but engagement in the hobbyist aspects themselves. Long before the Internet, I had periods of intense involvement in the hobby, through such things as the NY Audio Society (or whatever it was called- the original publisher of The Audio Voice). A bunch of characters, some reviewers, ardent hobbyists, record collectors. Great fun. Yet I went through periods where I didn’t even set up a system (though I kept the gear and all the records). It isn’t that I lost interest, but had other things, including work, that took most of my time and energy. Once the Internet emerged, I got involved in it first as a lawyer- it was largely bulletin boards on fairly bandwidth limited ISP intermediaries. You’d read threads in a string. Over the years, I did some behind the scenes work for one hobbyist board (not audio) and a ton of work on Internet related litigation. My experience also led me to get involved as a participant in a variety of boards, involving audio, cars, motorcycles, and other hobbyist interests. What I saw over the long haul was that participants change, old members drop off for any number of reasons, new participants join and the culture changes- not making a value judgment on that- it’s the nature of the beast. The topics change too as different technologies come into play- look how much bandwidth is now devoted to "streaming." I think when you are in acquisition and evaluation mode, you are more likely to engage. At a certain point, at least for me, I’ve seen a lot of the same questions arise and don’t feel compelled to chime in; the topics are usually well covered. It isn’t exactly "lack of interest" but more where I think I can contribute something of value. The social aspect of the fora also mark a change from the old days and I’m not sure we can go back-- there was something special about in person group listening sessions. Yeah, not all of it was serious and productive- a fair about of kibitzing, record swaps and just plain socializing. In some ways I miss that. But the Internet opened up the whole world to us-- from record shopping worldwide, to communicating with groups of audiophiles from all over. Trade-offs to be sure. I’m now about 53 years deep into this hobby and seem way more comfortable not knowing all the answers. So I still visit, still peruse the threads and chime in when I find it appropriate. I have made many friends over the years through various hobbyist fora and for that I’m grateful even in cases where I no longer actively participate in a particular forum. |
Many great comments here. I agree this forum is a reflection of the larger community or world we live in, forums by their nature a more impersonal community. I don't know how many others feel this way, but whenever I get nostalgic about the good gone days of audio I think back to when I was first discovering audio, going to the dozens of high end audio stores here in southeastern michigan. The shows I attended, local shows as well in those days. I just loved the in person engagement with audiophiles much more knowledgeable than I, sort of like some exclusive club I wanted to get into. And yeah, that does reflect my high school need to be in a club or gang of cool people (and I did have that). I also had inherent or already converted audio buddies and other new converts, we all desired to own the best of the best.
On top of the need for socialization, I also had an inherent desire to learn about all aspects of audio, how components and parts work, and I loved to look at and touch these beautiful works of art.
So, there was all that. But then we mature, other things draw our attention, audio just another interest amongst many. While I maintained my interest in audio over all these years, equipment came and went, knowledge gained, the audio magic club morphed into being just another interest.
Perhaps some of us have short attention spans, highest interest when engaging in something new, interest gradually wanes as time goes on. I suppose these forums are the magic clubs of today for the newbies, and they still have shows and a few dealers to engage with. Sort of feel sorry for the newbies today, forums pale imitation of in person engagement, so few dealers and only national shows.
I'd say the one thing that sustains me is listening to great performances and music over a really fine, highly resolving system. The performers in room experience is one thing I never tire of! |
I’ve only been here for going on 4 years, joining right AFTER I got back into the hobby and bought my first equipment. I was eager to learn, but I have since learned that consensus on “the way to go” is fleeting, as each person has their favorite gear to recommend. If I had to do it over again, I might wait before buying my gear, to see what might truly be out there (like REL subs) that is better before purchasing. I’ve enjoyed reading the varied submissions, but more likely now I’ve been skimming the topics and not reading so much. I find that people are so different in their experiences and budgets that some could likely never identify with me, my questions, my plans. I see questions about a type of gear and think, “I know what I might try if I were OP, but that is “slumming it” for some readers that have systems valued at $20,000 to $100,000 or more. I don’t have much to contribute. I think maybe if there were sub-forums based upon what people can afford to spend, that might be more helpful. The advice for someone that can spend up to $5,000 for their entire system is going to be different than recommendations for those spending $5,000 to $10,000, and that is different from advice useful to the real big spenders. I have about $8,000 in my system, so I can’t relate much to the big spenders and they cannot relate much to me (except, maybe, from their memory when they were more limited in funds). Still, I do sometimes learn useful things here and have been helped by some of the members here. I don’t abandon AG completely, though I read less than I once did. (I have gone to other audio forums where members comment about the egos and contentiousness of AG, and how they offer more useful advice on theirs). |
@acman3- thanks for that. I'm like a year behind in writing and publishing about released LPs. I really need to get back to that- it's enjoyable, research is fun, and of course, there's the listening. |
I think it depends on your personality type. As a Sigma, I tend to become very involved in a hobby or project to the point of some level of mastery, then I move on to the next. I may still be involved in the old hobby, but not to the extent I used to be. This is the common trait of a Sigma. So yes, once I understood audio and attained/built the equipment I wanted I stopped visiting those forums. I only visit this one because I get an email every Friday and might see a thread that interests me. I don't look at forums for validation, so concepts like appreciated or not have no bearing. I just like to share, learn or be entertained. |
Hi there. I’m one of those whose system has had a fairly stable configuration for 35 years, no need to go out and get the latest thing, I just have what works for me. That said, I now have a semi-anechoic listening room, and I had both of my NYAL Futterman OTL3s rebuilt (a tube shorted in one of them and took out a $0.29 part that threw the balance out, they had not been serviced in 14 years so I took them both in to Jon who pointed out that the units were 35 years old and parts and some of the design could be significantly upgraded so I let him do his thing). I may post about why keeping 35-60 year old equipment upgraded is a solution in today’s market, and how I went about it. All by way of saying that I come here to get entertained, to learn, and to relieve FOMO. Sometimes I’ll contribute if I think I have something valid to say, most of the time I’m just listening. I do forget about this forum for stretches when I got lots of other stuff on my plate. theaudioatticvinylsundays.com |