Sad songs- We love them- We need them


Hello everyone,

I was listening the other day to a sad song on my playlist and realized their ability to invoke a powerful emotional reaction. Usually about someone in your life. Your children, your special lady or man or maybe someone who is no longer living. I realized we need these songs to remind us life is short and to remember what is most important to us. I thought I would ask everyone to list a song or two that is special to them. It doesn’t necessarily need to be a sad song. I have children so I will start with a few songs that remind me to tell them I love them more often or give them an extra hug or two. 
 

Cats in the cradle- Harry Chapin

Jacobs Dream - Allison Krause 

Hell Is for Children- Pat Benetar

Ron

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From back in my days of high school angst, Nazareth's version of "Love Hurts."  (Although I don't think it would have an effect on me any longer.)

"The Ghost Of Phil Sinclair" by Chip Taylor still evokes an emotional response (of sorts) from me.

From Lucinda William's "Sweet Old World" CD, the song "Sweet Old World" and also from that DC, "Pineola."

I really liked the covers that Emmy Lou did of "Sweet Old World," and also her cover of Steve Earle's "Goodbye." 

"Hurt" by Nine Inch Nails as opposed to the cover of it that Johnny Cash did.

"I Can't Make You Love Me" Bonnie Raitt

"Hey Mister, That's Me Up On The Jukebox" Linda Ronstadt

"Hurt" Johnny Cash

"He Stopped Loving Her Today" George Jones

"Someone Like You" Adele

"The Living Years" Mike & The Mechanics

"Good Riddance (The Time of Your Life) Green Day

"Lazarus" David Bowie

"Blue" Joni Mitchell

"By the Time I Get to Phoenix" Glen Campbell

"How Can You Mend A Broken Heart?" Bee Gees

 

 

  • Empty Garden - Elton John
  • Touch me in the morning - Diana Ross
  • Times of your life - Paul Anka
  • How you gonna see me now - Alice Cooper
  • Send in the clowns - Judy Collins

 

@tooblue 

I can imagine no greater pain than losing a child. I have two daughters and a son. I’m so sorry. 
 

Ron 

@spenav, Thank you so much for the thought, what a sweet special gesture. It was my beautiful 36 year old daughter I lost in a car wreck 8 month ago. Enjoy the music

"Gloom, Despair, And Agony On Me"  Hee Haw

"The Ballad Of Dwight Fry"  Alice Cooper

@mitchagain  yes I think it is the unique combo of cynicism and depression! 
seeing him live in DC in a few weeks;  sure hope he’s not in love!

@fastfreight , good call on Lloyd Cole.

Everything But the Girl - Riverbed Dry

Prefab Sprout - We Let The Stars Go

The Smiths - Back To The Old House

Puff the Magic Dragon - Peter, Paul, and Mary

A dragon lives forever, but not so little boys
Painted wings and giant's rings make way for other toys
One gray night it happened, Jackie Paper came no more
And Puff, that mighty dragon, he ceased his fearless roar

His head was bent in sorrow, green scales fell like rain
Puff no longer went to play along the cherry lane
Without his lifelong friend, Puff could not be brave
So Puff, that mighty dragon, sadly slipped into his cave

Son Volts "Methamphetamine" is the saddest song ever written for my money. A close second is John Prine's "Souvenirs"

 

Roy Orbison--Only the Lonely, Cryin

Everly Brothers Cryin’ in the Rain, Cathy’s Clown, When Will I Be Loved?, So Sad, Love Hurts

The Happenings Will I See You in September?

Elvis, OF COURSE, Heartbreak Hotel

Lots more, but these for a start...

 

Old Bones, Hangman, and Trigger on the album Blood of the Land by The Burned.

Darkest of My Days on album A Rebel’s Story by Big Wolf Band

@knighttodd 

I’m very sorry to hear about your wife. You must have many wonderful memories to keep her right there with you. 
 

Ron 

@tooblue 

 

Deepest condolences. You are one of the unlucky ones, we usually go first. Wish I could hug you. 

That’s the way - Led Zeppelin

Robert would later (with LZ and solo) sometimes write some lyrics where he expressed some quite profound sadness, more in the form of tributes.

@dvddesigner  'Losing it' ... nice one!  One can't help contemplate the irony of the lyricist's final years

Vincent - Don McLean

Seasons in the Sun - Terry Jacks

Tears - Rush

 

Lyin' Eyes - Eagles

The Sound Of Your Memory - Willie Nelson

You Used to Love to Dance - Melissa Etheridge

Step Inside This House - Lyle Lovette

 

the Castilian Spanish version of Timi Yuro’s "Hurt" ["Agonado"]. gawd almighty, that one aches in the <3 in a way the English version only hinted at. you don’t even have to understand Spanish to FEEL what she is singing. you can "hear" hurt in her delivery. then there is Tim Buckley’s "once i was" which is the male version of that. then there is the Basque lullaby "Nana" sung by Victoria De Los Angeles. poignant! then there is "Vesti La Guibba" from "I Pagliacci" [Leoncavallo operetta] sung by a tenor whose name escapes me but you'd swear there were real tears [he was emoting like gangbusters] dripping from his eyes in the video. almost intolerably sad. "Since i fell for you" by Lenny Welch is yet another where he sells the song in his emotional delivery. if he recited the NYC phone directory in that voice it would have almost as much pathos.

The soundtrack from Schindler's List, especially the track "I Could Have Done More." Achingly beautiful and exquisitely heart-wrenching.

I just lost my wife of 40 years 3 months ago.  So Bob Welch/ Sentimental Lady,Foreigner/ Waiting for a girl like you. RIP Pam.

"Lonelier Than This" Steve Earle

"Me And Bobby McGee" whether performed by Kris Kristofferson or covered by Janis Joplin

"The Last Resort" The Eagles

 

With A Memory Like Mine - Darrell Scott from the album Real Time by Darrell Scott & Tim O'Brien.

Some others:

Insensatez- Stacy Kent

What's New - Linda Ronstadt

It was a Very Good Year - Sinatra

At Seventeen - Janis Ian

If I loved You Tierney Sutton

Blue and Green Tierney Sutton

 

Elton John - Someone Saved My Life Tonight

Jason Isbell - Songs That She Sang in the Shower

Many more but these are two of my favorites. 

"I Need a Man to Love" - Big Brother & the Holding Company (Cheap Thrills version)
"I Heard It through the Grapevine" - Marvin Gaye
"Ramblin' Man" - Hank Williams
"The Needle and the Damage Done" - Neil Young
 

"Speed Of The Sound Of Loneliness"   John Prine.

When we lost John Prine, we lost a great one.