Contact him and ask him if he is still interested in the speakers.
Sellers Beware
I would like to inform the Audiogon Community about an individual I tried to do business with and hopefully what happened to me will not happen to others.
An individual, Frank, made me an offer on my speakers. I accepted his offer. He then sends an email asking how much freight will cost and he wanted the least expensive. A legit question. I informed him about clicking on Audiogon’s Get Cost for the freight cost and I proceeded to tell him I would take the speakers to USPS and get an actual cost for him.
This was all by email. I asked him to please make an official offer through Audiogon. He never did. I have not heard a word from him since 5/30 when he asked about the freight cost.
My thoughts are this individual should not be trusted.
Have other members had experiences like this? I have sold quite bit on Audiogon and never had a problem before.
So basically you're upset and posting because someone inquired about your speakers and then went dark and didn't buy them from you right?
Have you ever sold anything here or online before or is this your first time - your post suggests it might be your first time because otherwise you should be used to this happening countless times when an item is posted.
Do you buy every item YOU inquire about in your purchase explorations ? |
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@hilde45 , +1 |
Uh yeah, I did. And my response is in line with others observing that it’s typical that people often window shop and never complete a transaction. But, based on your 5067 posts here I’m guessing you’re going to critique my answer. How does one find or have the time to post 5k comments in a forum? Just curious. |
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@saugertiesbob , I agree. |
@eurorack oh plz, the guy made him an offer, he accepted the offer than got ghosted, that’s not cool, no class at all, if he changed his mind cause f=of shipping cost than so be it but at least.tell the seller instead of leaving him hangin, that’s classless, you clearly seem like that type of guy, waste ones time, that’s the problem nowadays on forums, lack of morals/ethics and comradely
Uh, wait a minute. Maybe I’m completely crazy. Where is it written that obligation to buy comes with asking a question? Oh; but I’ve asked a question. Am I now obligated to buy this thread??? |
To the original poster -- yes. I stand corrected. That is crummy behavior on the part of the offered-didn't buy person. No argument there. The way many of the responses read, it sounded as if merely asking a question carries some obligation. Reread and see whether you can agree with -- or at least see -- my read. I guess the specific topic of this thread evolved (which is not bad). |
I have a Set of Altec 604-8's in altec 612 Cabinets on eBay. I would never attempt to ship them. The Package Monkeys would destroy them if shipped.They are pick up only. As stated above 99% are tire kickers. I get emails all the time with questions that don't make sense. In this world of places to advertise Audio gear which are many. Expect the prolific tire kicker. If I get an offer through email,I know it's a tire kicker. If the offer comes thru eBay it is an official offer. One that I can accept or decline. |
A couple of years ago I was selling an amp on this site. I received an offer through the A'gon system and I accepted it. After two days of silence I reached out to the buyer asking about payment method and ship to address. When he finally replied back he notified me that he had multiple offers out on other amps and was trying to decide which one he wanted to buy, Somewhow he did not understand that if he makes an offer on A'gon, and it is accepted, he is obligated to follow through with the purchase. |
sounds a bit like an severe overeaction! guy can’t change his mind ? i would not buy fr you thx! for heads up! My way, I get $ and pirate ship also refunds the shipping ! 100% |
When you make an offer on ebay, it is 100% binding, that is, your credit card gets charged and shipping proceeds the minute the seller accepts your offer. In other words, once your offer is accepted you can't change your mind. It's a very good system and Audiogon would do well to emulate it if they don't already. |
The OP states that the potential buyer and he were communicating by email and that is where the offer was made, outside the audiogon format which is a bit telling in itself. The way Agon is set up with the make offer system actually locks the buyer into the offer made and allows the buyer and seller to the sell/purchase. Moral of story is, always inform any tire kickers that all reasonable offers will be considered but only if placed through the provided format. Enjoy the music |
Tire kickers! There is no fraud or anything to beware of. It's just very annoying. I've had this happen many times with items sold on Audio mart. I've had people say they were going to buy my item and I never heard from them again! So many flakes out there it's just part of the selling game but I don't consider it anything to be concerned about. |
Such a simple, effective solution to buying/selling BS. I fully expect and understand that some potential buyers are going to ask questions and seek more information, and I do my best to be patient and provide accurate responses to their queries. However, I always remind them, "the first acceptable offer takes it." IOW, "money talks." - KISS |
Everything you say is true, but on eBay, you can contact the seller directly if they didn't put in a shipping cost. Plus on eBay you can make an offer without commitment (if rejected) Not putting in a shipping cost invites people to ask how much to ship the item and what the total amount will be. Sometimes the people decide on something else. It's just part of selling on the internet, whether it's Audiogon, eBay Craig's List or Facebook marketplace. There will be scammers (easy to spot), there will be people who ask and then stop responding. If you don't have a thick skin, selling things online may not be for you. |
My audiogon story. Posted a Classe pre-amp in perfect condition. Buyer from West coast bid and I accepted. He called a week later and said amp was defective. He said he put a power supply on it and it and it failed.! I said send it back and refunded all his money. I checked the pre-amp on return and it was perfect. He had tested the pre-amp on a low voltage input and the pre-amp had gone into auto-protect mode. Seller beware of idiots. |
This is how members get negative feedback, selling speakers and then have to ship them! If you are going to ship speakers make sure you have the original packing materials. Any way if you are selling, having people contact you with questions goes with the territory. I know it's annoying but eventually it could lead to a sale. Be patient, be nice. |
To OP. Yes offers must go through the official offer process. Know shipping cost beforehand. I have started to differentiate between East of Mississippi shipping and West of Mississippi shipping cost. Shipping across country invites problems with damage and delays. Offers on the East coast are more welcome. Here's the biggie. Filter people out by how they communicate in writing. Do they write in complete sentences? Do they come across as an adult? Are they knowledgeable? They must be polite. I'm not greedy. If red flags are raised I am polite to that person, but really don't try to do business with them. This works. I buy and sell on Craigslist, Reverb, USAUDIOMART, and Audiogon. I have made friends and met cool people by following my own rules. If people can't communicate properly, I don't deal with them. |
@ancient_tones + 1, but for me, West Coast is preferable. But yes, communication can tell you a lot, though these days, it's possible that written communication could have been written by AI; I would have a chat with the person on the phone to discuss audiophile things to get a better idea if they're legit. |
@yragteddy I am a careful buyer!! Caveat Emptor is my closest buddy when looking at used sale items. I have at times asked more from a seller than they are usually willing to go to, but my inquiries do at times put the genuine seller in the place where they have to stand behind their statements made. One Example being Vintage Valves being Purchased, I can have these measured within a few days of their being received. I always buy with the condition Valves will be tested on a Particular Measuring device and if not a close match to measurements shown with the Sale Info, the Valves will be returned with a full remuneration of monies paid. To have this option I will incur the cost to deliver and the cost to return. More importantly why shouldn't I invest the little extra, to look after my own interests by utilising such an available local support. Being a Buyer of used items in audio, is for the buyer, One Big investigation into what is out there in the market that relates to their interest for a purchase. What is available for certain monies seen as a typical value and what is the lowest that is to be found where the Seller has shown their asking price. Such an investigation is able to show what was thought of a unobtainable for a particular budget, might just be realised if a sale items appears that is a close mimic of one having been seen in a portal that shows a sale history. When knowledge is gathered, the next for the Buyer becomes a period of inquiry and for some buyers, an offer is a very consolidated method of an inquiry. It certainly is an avoidance of making inquiries about the product in general. A follow up to learn the full bottom line associated with the purchase is not strange. There are always shifting sands in the used market, an Item can appear, maybe a more expensive item, seen to be more affordable than typically seen and definitely seen to be the better option as a purchase. The seller has no authority over the Buyer and how they wish to spend their funds. If the Buyer fails to do something to secure the sale for themselves, the seller should consider the item still for sale to anybody. If the buyer having communicated with a seller, does not fully communicate their final decision, that is their business and if there is flak, that is theirs to take. The seller has not said if they would have dropped the Buyer 'Frank', following their offer, if an offer came from another Buyer with an immediate offer of a deposit to secure the sale?? To Publicly declare Frank as untrustworthy and to be avoided - WOW!!! I hope Frank sees this post from the OP, I'm sure he will be totally contented not a Cent went to this sale from his coffer. My advice on the Gon is to a Buyer who may look at a Sale Item from the OP. The Buyer should express extreme caution in how they communicate, as there may be an outcome they are not deserved off, which becomes a very Public expressed content. |
@yragteddy It looks like when seeing the profile about your Tag, you are a Gon member for 12 Years and not once contributed to forum activity until producing this Thread. Again WOW!!, To get a gauge of how interested in the Gon forum you are. How much time is allocated to being an onlooker of forum activity ? |