On the bright side, if we are suddenly invaded by otherwise invincible Martians, they wouldn’t even last two minutes these days.
Older And Wiser or just Tighter and Deafer?
I’m 63. I’m not wealthy but I have a tolerant wife and I still love to pursue great sound. But I find myself increasingly reluctant to spend significant amounts on new gear. I know my hearing acuity is not as good as it used to be, but my love of music and good sound is not diminished. When considering a purchase, I find myself factoring in cost versus life expectancy (mine!) and auditory function. I’ll even have some guilt about spending my kid’s inheritance. Is something wrong with me?
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All epidemiologists describe the coronavirus, among others, monster to comes...Not only that was written by one but by many in books or interviews... Be it Dr. Fauci or Dr. Raoult and many less known others... They even gives advice to be cautious for the near future in few years terms.... But who listen to science when we can play Golf or travel.... Ask m. Macron in France. M. T. in US. or Trudeau in Canada....The only place where some brain is at the wheel is in south Korea and few other well prepared places...And guess why the powers that be and will be dont care for a real health care system? Sorry for the inconvenient truth.... |
Okay, now they've applied the final straw. Tyson Foods is closing its largest pork processing plant in Iowa. Closing the beaches? Ok. Tracking citizens via drones? OK. Government edicts to snitch on each other? Ok. BUT ... mess with our bacon and there's gonna be hell to pay. I predict riots in the streets of Rodney King proportions. Frank |
I predict riots in the streets of Rodney King proportions.Alas! I think you are right.... And now unprepared for the uncontrolled health crisis, it is too late, and the economical crisis will be apocalyptic...Remember that the economical and financial crisis was already there ready to explode before the virus crisis.... Trump is right about the death toll that will be cause by the economical stop.... But he is completely wrong if he thinks that life in the world can go back to normal now without this health crisis ended and controlled....The geopolitical crisis is not separate from Us crisis in leadership.... This is a world leadership crisis also.... My best to you.... |
Dear poster, I have retired twice and will again at the end of this year for good. I have always faced the situation of upgrading my system like all of us have in our years of chasing the unobtainable. My current system is very good with no real weak components. So my next upgrade and possibly last is a serious cartridge upgrade on my turntable. I have a good budget so I can get what I want. Whatever I don't spend will go into our travel fund that my wife will also enjoy. As far spending my kids inheritance if the whole world doesn't collapse and we all become homeless there will be plenty left for them. Enjoy what you enjoy now and try not to have any regrets. |
noromance....you've wise'd up....;) Ultimately, the only one you need to impress is yourself. It's pleasant when others are impressed, a nice 'ego-stroke' basically. At this time, anything above and beyond a Walmart gets attention. but most of the systems owned and described here brand one as 'fringe'. ...which, at the end of the day...is Fine....OK... If looked at as neurosis, at least it's harmless....except perhaps to one's wallet. *g* That, each to one's 'own'....Literally. *L* Having spent the bulk of my life involved in some fashion in the graphic arts and craft in employment, artist friends at some point have inquired as to Why I haven't 'expressed myself' in some way. One finally 'got it'....blurting out... "I now understand....Your Life is Your Art!" *s* Close enough.... Like most, one doesn't need to totally understand it. It just Is. Stay healthy, J |
So, I guess actuarial tables get thrown out during pandemics...seriously, though, if you enjoy it and can afford it you don’t need to justify the expenditure to anyone but yourself and your partner. I had a nice system before retirement (Linn Axis turntable, Paradigm Atom speakers and NAD 7020 amp) that was perfect for my mobile AF life (Air Force...). When I retired seven years ago I upgraded and decided to expand my record collection. Then late last year we decided to improve my wife’s commute and downsize. I sold all my records and equipment, and bought a Bluesound PowerNode 2i streamer and ELAC Debut 6.2s. Now that the move is on hold, I spend my days listening to stuff I always meant to listen to but could never find. Do I miss my old system and collection? Not really. I am exploring with the new system and enjoying it. Hearing damage? Yep, too much flight line time and pain meds. To quote someone older and wiser than me, “It’s not the equipment, it’s what you do with it.” BTW, I have lived in a few rough places during serious epidemics: Brazil ‘84 (conjunctivitis), Gabon 2008 (chikungunya), as well as have a mom who contracted polio in her childhood. Epidemics and pandemics need to be taken seriously, because disease doesn't care what you want. It is opportunistic. You don’t give it the opportunity then you survive and it doesn’t. Really basic. Those who complain about social distancing et al exhibit an incredible amount of selfishness, ignorance and entitlement. This is NOT “just the flu”. It is FAR more contagious and deadly, and has far more secondary and term affect THAT WE KNOW OF. Blood clots? Strokes? Brain swelling? You want to take a risk with your loved ones with that? Instead, listen to some great music on your outstanding audio equipment and ride this out. You are already doing MUCH better that 95 percent of the worlds population, so stop being so f***ing ungrateful. How about taking it to the next level. Do you know a COVID-19 survivor? (I know at least three) The family of a fatality? Again, three. Reach out and comfort them. Help them. And do not ignore the real pain happening around you. |
jdmccall56, regarding hearing aids ... I'm age 64 and have been using them for about 5 years now. It's one of the best things I've ever done for myself despite the cost. I was professionally measured and found I have significant hearing loss above 3k. The hearing aids brought back great enjoyment of my system and made it much easier to be part of conversations and understanding dialog in movies. For a while I would do A/B comparisons with them in and out, thinking there was no way having them in could provide a realistic sound. I decided I just enjoyed my system so much more with them in and moved forward with this decision. Is it as good as it used to be? Probably not - but I don't care ... what matters is that I get tremendous enjoyment from my system now. I've upgraded speakers during this time (about $8k in Legacy Audio speakers) and happy to still be 'in the game'. |
16f4 Thanks for this heartfelt post.... My best to you.... |
FWIW, if you are presently healthy you could easily outlive any components you might now buy. What I would do (and actually have) is to redirect my attention to simplifying my system using quality components to facilitate the ease of use when you start to 'lose' your mind (as well as hearing) in case someone else has to turn it on for you, and I would have a component which has effective tone controls to compensate somewhat for your projected hearing loss (or buy a good quality add-on tone control :-). |
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>> I’ll even have some guilt about spending my kid’s inheritance. Did you work hard, save and invest wisely so that your *children* would be financially comfortable or so that you and your long-suffering better half could be financially comfortable? I hope that the way that you helped your children to be financially comfortable was by educating them, often by example. I believe that if my children want to be financially comfortable, they ought to do the same things that I did: work hard, save and invest wisely. >> "Does it ever end?" Sure, when the coroner zips up the bag and carries me out feet first. Until that time, I recommend that you enjoy life to the fullest. |
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I am 64. My hearing is nearly flat to 15khz. As a child/teen, my hearing went out to 20-30Khz, probably due to my asthma (bronchial conditions in children often result in hearing high frequencies). Unfortunately, I also was bothered by buzzing high frequencies in lights that others couldn't hear. I have found that my left ear lobe at the top has a curl to it which my right ear lobe doesn't have. The left ear hears a less open, darker sound than the right. When I unbend the lobe, sound is identical in both ears (and more open). Plastic surgery would permanently result in more open sound on one side. I don't plan to do that. Similar to my eyesight. My left eye has always had a neutral color rendition. My right eye is my primary vision eye and has a darker color rendition. Together, a nice balance. I would never want to live with the left eye only vision. That's life. As to equipment, I only want to upgrade my main speakers but they will cost $35K to $75K (Von Schweikert VR6 MKII or VR55s. I can live with my Focus speakers just fine in the meantime. I am satisfied with the rest of my system (but it took a looong time get it and the my room to make me satisfied). |
douglas_schroeder ... Thank you for that quote. I think you would really appreciate this person: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-HKetO89ik https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJ7Q0uMLv1Y Frank |
For me the big moves are in the past. For the past ten years (I’m now 65), I’ve shifted mostly to DIY audio in order to side-step upgraditus-- by way of modifications that improve and extend the life of already excellent commercial components that have been in my system since the mid-2000s. The major exception has been upgrades to CPU audio-- a technology that continues to advance rapidly. After thirty-some years of systems evolution, it should certainly be reasonable to be near an end-point. I attend a couple of audio shows each year to remind myself that my system is close enough to SOTA. The virus has added further perspective on consumerism. When in my mid-40s and in an aggressive systems-building mode-- I recall a wise audio salesman describing the typical arc of many of his customers: constant equipment churn during the high income years between 40-50, followed by increasingly painful addictive purchases as income declines, followed by the big sell-off after penurious retirement or a postmortem fire sale by disinterested spouses or children. At this point in life I am shifting to projects that more fully involve family. Two-up motorcycling with the wife. Working with my son-in-law on a Renegade Hybrids LS3 V-8 conversion to a mid-’80s Lotus Turbo Esprit. When that car is finished it will be a gift to him. |
As we prepare to sell our house and move I've been keeping my shredder busy lately. I'm only keeping seven years of my tax returns and business receipts, as I was going thru my papers I had memories of all the good fortune I had, in my 21 years of having a very successful consulting business, I worked a lot during those times that so many others were not so fortunate, like the recession of the early 2000's, the "great recession", etc. By the end of 2014 I was pretty much "fully spent", and found that I'd worked and billed out 2882 hours that year! As a result, I enjoy an audio system that is way more than I ever dreamed of! We are in the process of building a home in a wonderful neighborhood, and YES, it'll have a "bonus room" for my audio system. |