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I feel very sad and sorry for you.
I feel very sad and sorry for you.
Craigslist Fraud
millercarbon"I did not even know it was possible to mod a girlfriend. And not for lack of trying!" I feel very sad and sorry for you. |
one time I won an eBay item worth about $6k-8k, for $2k. the guy slowed it down and never mailed the item, kept delaying and so on. in the end 'his wife packaged it and sent it' as he said would finally happen. Turned out it really was a desperation sale to help cover costs....he really was in the hospital and basically dying from diabetes complications and his wife had to package it and send it, late. Way to feel bad..... the odd time it really is legit. but only the very odd time. |
I've sold a few things on Craigslist, always local, never very expensive. As I think about offering up some nicer gear soon, I have thought about listing on Craigslist, but I'm nervous about asking someone to bring $3000 cash to the Starbucks parking lot. Has anyone used Venmo or PayPal to close those deals? Any thoughts? |
I too had a brush with a Craigslist scammer. I had just posted a listing for a Pioneer Spec-1 & Spec-4 combo. A day later a reply came that said something to the effect I should reply to a separate E-mail address, outside of Craigslist which tipped me off immediately, but I did just for curiosity. I was told the buyer had no problems with my price & he was definitely interested, then the next day he stated he unfortunately had to work & couldn’t pay & pick the items up himself (which were listed as pickup only) but he could send me a cashier’s check, swore it was good, I could even go cash it first & receive the money, along with a 50 additional bucks for doing so, he would arrange for a 3rd party to come pickup the items after I had my money. Now I’m clearly aware of these fraudulent cashier’s checks, your bank will gladly cash them for you & then in a wk. or 2 when they bounce, your bank will hold you responsible for repayment, I stated that the only way we would do business is that he would have to come to me with cash & make the exchange in person, I never heard another word. |
I am sure that there are scamming on all different sites, some sites more prone that others, but they are all out there prying on people. This is the reason I always sell or buy where there will be face to face contact and a cash transaction or a known bank check is used. This then means that most of my sales or purchases will be fairly local, within an easy days ride both back and forth. I do this because I am a worrier and this removes most of it for me. Others are better at rooting out the scams and are comfortable buying or selling long distance. I could never do this. Maybe you should rethink how you buy or sell. I just used Craig's list to sell two high end bikes with no problems. I did have a few scammers approach me. All the scammers wanted to transfer through shipping arrangements and not willing to come and meet face to face. Those emails were just deleted by me. |
Craigslist scam with happy ending: I live a little north of Fort Lauderdale. One day, I saw some B&W 803's (One missing tweeter) with an opening bid of $400 requested. I was certain it was a scam, but it was close enough to go there to pick up the speakers. I won the auction for that price, and tried to make an appointment to go get the speakers. After repeated emails were always answered with, "Just send the damned money, and I will ship them", I gave up. IA few weeks later, they were on ebay, again, but from a different seller. I called and discovered he had bought them off of Craigslist for the same price, from a guy moving to CA. Two other people sent the guy money, maybe more. Now the good part of the story. The buyer felt sorry for me, did not like the holes drilled to hang the speakers
(Sacreledge),
and had already ordered a pair of tweeters for $300 from a pal in the business. I took all of it, and had an extra tweeter. Next, I bought a single 805, with a tweeter, and a few months later, found one sans tweeter. I sold these for $740 and now have some of the the best free speakers I have ever heard. They even worked with my subs, and still do. . |
I've had pretty good luck selling electronics on Craigs list. The scammers always are ones that call as soon as you post your ad. They all have the same story line with a few added touches. One thing they have in common is the cashiers check angle and usually offer you more than you are asking for the item. Thats the big tip off. Also they send someone other than themselves to pick it up. Saying their wife is in the hospital or something similar. One guy even called me from Reno Nevada and tried to sound like an old man. He wasn't much of an actor. I could tell he was faking it. |
I like all the people posting "rules" for making Craigslist sales. Here's what a scammer tried with me. Scammer - Email - I want the item. Me - fine, local pickup, cash only. Scammer - I'm out of town, I'll send a down payment cashier's check. Me - No. Cash only. Local pickup. Scammer: I've sent a cashier's check via FedEx, here's the tracking number. Me - I know this is a scam, the FedEx will be refused. Scammer: Please deposit the check in your bank, etc. Me - I've notified FedEx security of this scam using FedEx with the tracking number. I've notified Tractor Supply security that you're using their address in Florida for a scam and possibly their FedEx number.. I've talked with Manager of the Tractor Supply store and notified her of the scam. The FedEx will go back to Tractor Supply, and they're going to turn it over to the local police. All of this took about a week to resolve. The scammers are really persistent and even when you tell them you know it's a scam, they don't quit. So, you can make up whatever rules YOU want for Craigslist sales, but ultimately it's up to you to clean up the mess the scammers have made for you. |
Thats such an old CL scam that I'm surprised they're still doing the ’oops I sent you too much’ check scam. on CL I will only do in person for items that expensive and maybe Venmo/Paypal in some rare cases. youre better off protecting yourself and selling on ebay or even Reverb does some hifi sales. |
Another twist on CL to be aware of. I was selling a motorcycle and had a VIN report. The buyer wanted a VIN report from another provider. I did it and immediately knew I was scammed (Cayman Island site). Canceled my credit card and they refunded the VIN report charge. Never use a VIN report that you didn't generate. |
Just curious can't the police check with FedEx on who's account the check was shipped with FedEx? Probably shipped by a Mr. Cold H. Cash, or in this case Mr. Florida Man. Anyone can walk into a FedEx store and pay cash to send a package anywhere. Alternatively, sent with a stolen FedEx account number and thrown into a drop box. |
CL is free ad posting and local, and that's hard to avoid. Anytime I post, I will state the item is cash only, and will NEVER be viewed at my house - can be seen or transacted in the parking lot of the local police station. If that possibly prevents a potential purchase, then maybe it was for a good reason. |
I agree with the other folks here. I've dealt on Craigslist quite a lot. The key is to keep it simple. Cash is best. If you must accept a check, money order, etc. wait until it clears before releasing the merchandise, simple. I've been asked on CL and eBay, "Will you accept a check?" I tell them, "I'll accept a dirty napkin, WHEN IT CLEARS, I send the item". They often then disappear. |
I had exactly the same thing happen to me selling a Porsche on Autotrader. It is impossible for these web sites to screen everything. Scammers keep coming up with new ideas. You you did a great job picking up on it. When dealing with people you do not know always do so with distrust until you get to know them. It is one of the reasons I hardly ever ship. Local pick up only. If someone really wants something they can come and pick it up. People who are going to meet you face to face are much less likely to scam you. The young man that just bought my old Sota handed me a wad of cash. I never asked for cash only. It was understood. |
I really appreciate all the responses and suggestions. I'm so thankful that the only things I lost in this learning moment, was time and pride. Going to list both pieces on Audiogon this weekend. The hassle of dealing with the fraudsters and wheel kicking/time wasters off Craigslist is just not worth the amount of cash I save avoiding transaction fees. |
Depending on what you are selling, many will think "I'm willing to bet he has more gear at his house" They will have another party follow you home from the public parking lot sale. This has happened a couple of times locally. The other one is people have their mail held at the USPS when they go on vacation. Postal workers give the info to people who break into the homes. |
Many good tips; scammers are preying on people who they think are desperate to get cash now because of the pandemic. I've seen suggestions to use a police department/fire department/library parking lot or any place where there's a lot of pedestrian travel, like a Lowes or Home Depot - NEVER at your house if you can help it, and have someone come with you to watch from afar or near you. Not that you couldn't get robbed/hurt at any of these places (and police won't interfere in private transactions, even on their property unless a law is being broken). If you agree to meet at your house for a demonstration of your goods, try to make it outside; I've pulled speakers/amps out into the driveway for testing. Don't agree to meet at night, either. |
+1 cash only. If you accept payment through something like PayPal or Venmo, after the buyer leaves with your gear, they can contact their credit card and deny the charge, claiming that their card had been stolen or something. The charge will be reversed and you will be out the money and never see your gear again. |
I have sold on CL before, with no problems. However, early Dec I posted a cartridge on several sites and had an experience 90% similar to @thelostdutchman. I get an email from one joker saying that he's interested. Then I get a text from a 3rd party claiming to be his wife (1st red flag) saying that he will pay more than I was asking (2nd red flag) and that he is sending someone to drop off a check (3rd red flag) via FedEx and needed my address (4th red flag). No way I was giving it out. I strictly meet in well lit public places. Out of curiosity, I Googled FedEx & Craigslist check scam and bingo. They spelled out the exact play. The back will take the check and deposit it. However, 5 days later, you get an NSF notice. Stay diligent. Trust but verify. |
Hey, I love CL. Have to be a little careful, but I've bought and sold so many things there. I love meeting people from all walks of life and making an honest deal. No transaction fees, no middle men, no taxes. Never had a problem taking paypal, venmo, or cash. Browse my local audio selection on CL almost daily! +1, but cash only. |
Sorry this happened to you. I'm a CL regular, and do a lot of out-of-area deals, mostly as a buyer. It's experiences like this that make a lot of sellers resistant to even considering what I have to offer. I give my phone number (and urge them to call, since I want to be sure the seller is the real deal), suggest PayPal (easily traceable if there's a problem) or a postal money order (convertible to cash at the post office), and want payment cleared before shipping. A third party escrow service is always a possibility, but I've never used one. So far, every deal has worked out fine. Cashier's checks, third party pickup, and an unwillingness to talk on the phone are sure indications of a scam. |
No matter where you sell, you can get scammers. There is no guarantee that the buyer is legit if he is buying on agon, cl, Usam, ebay, or fb. I’ve had this same thing happen to me, the buyer wrote me a $20k check for a couple hundred $$$ sale. I called the issuing bank and of course it didn’t come from them, but it looked authentic. There are so many more things to worry about when selling anything online, like: * receive your gear and then they complain that it doesn’t work and they demand PayPal to reimburse them and they will actually send you their non-working unit. I’ve had this happen to me a few times. I always take a picture of the serial #(s) before shipping, and when I state that, they don’t want a refund. * claiming that they haven’t received the product and want a full refund. Since I always use signature on delivery, I’ll send them the receipt that they signed for delivery * shipping overseas can cause issues because if the item goes thru customs, you can’t get signature on delivery so the buyer can receive the product and then claim to PayPal that they never received the product and then you are forced to issue a refund. So when shipping overseas, payment has to be received and deposited and I wait for the check to clear before sending the product Thats only a few things that you have to worry about when dealing with any buyer from any sales selling app |
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Some scammers are of the genius kind. Too bad they don't work for legitimate gain. Here's an example of a clever one who preyed on the "less than intelligent"........ Years ago when cell phone use really took off people were using them everywhere. Most important, people were talking on their phones while driving. When the number of accidents on the road exploded due to distracted drivers law enforcement began to write citations for that act. That's when hands free gadgets for cell phones took off. A seller on eBay listed a hands free device for only $5. He posted no photo of the device. A flood of buyers jumped on the deal and ordered it.Turns out the device was simply a large rubber band costing only a few cents. The user would put the rubber band around the head and then place the cell phone underneath next to the ear. I don't remember how the legal issues worked out but, in a way, the seller wasn't legally misleading as to the function of the device. I'm sure he was banned from eBay. As clever as some of those people are all we can do is to be very careful when buying online. |
Classic scam. Every time I have posted on Craigslist, I get at least one of these ("Price is acceptable. Please remove ad. I am unfortunately out of state but I [or my agent] will send a check."). I simply delete. Never had a problem with 'real' buyers, who will come and take a look and generally with cash. |
Hey, I love CL. Have to be a little careful, but I've bought and sold so many things there. I love meeting people from all walks of life and making an honest deal. No transaction fees, no middle men, no taxes. Never had a problem taking paypal, venmo, or cash. Browse my local audio selection on CL almost daily! |