What has your audiophile experience taught you about yourself?
So that is the question, "What has your audiophile experience taught you about yourself?" I would think it interesting to know what others have found in an introspective way. This is what I have found.
1. At first I believed in the hype created by over-enthusiastic new gear owners. Most often I made mistakes in buying gear other people liked rather than listening to audio components and picking the pieces I enjoyed. 2. I found more actual enjoyment in listening to my music and my equipment rather than lust after better equipment, much of which is out of my financial reach. 3. I can learn from others on audio sites like audiogon.com. Some other sites are much more geared toward advertising than exchange of ideas and/or opinions. 4. It is ok to want a Bose Wave radio. I once owned Bose 901 speakers in the 80's.
@elizabeth I thought your 6/23 8:42AM post one of the more remarkable things I've read here...and I mean that in a good way. Thanks for writing it. Apology accepted! even though I personally haven't felt attacked. Would that other writers practiced a little introspection and self-criticism. On balance, I generally enjoy and benefit from your grounded and unpretentious approach to audio. Yes, the "suffer no fools" attitude is a bit strong at times but not unwarranted in many cases. There are a few consistently solid contributors to these threads. You are definitely one of them (at least in my mind).
Good points from all. A short story- I once had a friend (soldier buddy) who went to many of the same mobilizations and countries that I did. He had commented on the food, women, houses, clothes behavior of the people from all the places he visited stating America is so much better in all areas. He made very critical judgements, often stating facts. I mentioned he was exeriencing “ethnocentrism” and it was common for soldiers to do this when traveling abroad. I found over the years he was not interested in being introspective or learning much from others. He was sure about everything he knew about himself and the greater, bigger world around him. I often think about him when I read some comments made by audiophiles. We all can grow and learn, if we want to. If we see the education in that process and the benefit it can provide.
@elizabeth It is not you. There are people on this site who are often wrong but never uncertain. They are smarter than everyone else, never test there theories and will not let facts interfere with their opinions.
1) I have listened to very expensive systems up to $1,000,000. I have found that you can spend a very modest amount of money and get really enjoyable system.
2) Always let your wife have the last big purchase.
I eventually learnt not to trust magazine reviews or anyone with a vested interest.
I used to look down on pro/industry gear thinking domestic stuff was better. I tend to feel the opposite nowadays.
I learnt that there is no such thing as a definitive recording. Even if the recording remains the same, it's unlikely that the room and the system will. It's definite that you the listener won't. It just isn't possible to hear records the same way we did originally. Still we keep trying.
I have learnt that Hi-Fi is not everything. Hey, even music is not everything, believe it or not! For me tone is the best drug out there, but there's also a whole world out there too.
I even learnt to love Frank Sinatra, Nat King Cole, Bill Evans, Jazz, Instrumentals, and even Classical. 20 years ago I couldn't imagine such a thing. That kind of stuff just seemed too boring then. I must be slowing down, in a good way.
I was always a lyrics man and music second, now it's 50/50.
One thing hasn't changed, I still love the Beatles.
Do the research Learn to differentiate between value and hype Enjoy the music Be polite to hi-fi comrades Subjectivity and objectivity are slippery concepts
Funniest thread I've read in a while. And I think it's all true. Lol
And I also think we're all nuts. In the best way possible of course. Lol
What have I learned? That it's a good thing, or a bad thing I don't have a wife. Depending on how you look at it. And that we're very similar to crack addicts. I was told once that a crack addict can have a tractor trailer full of crack, and it's still not enough. We're the same way. All the money, and gear in the world doesn't insure our happiness. Only enjoying our little piece of crack (gear) will do so. I think we all have an addictive/impulsive personality. We've just chosen a different drug is all.
Ive learned that even if i spend a million dollars on a system that i probably will not be satisfied. (If i had a million dollars to spend on a system). And always think something is better out there to get me to my live music.
That if I frequent a room enough; a music system will end up in there. This phenomena has not changed since my teenage years. My wife keeps me in the basement at home.
Also These days in helping out audio friends, very satisfying trying to make the most enjoyable music rooms from the least amount of dollars. The plethora of used gear allows for this.
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For me during summer months it is healthy to step away from Audiophilia and this site; Music becomes nature and those songs that go well with a campfire, and some beers.
Only to find year after year, that once the cold weather starts setting in, and I am for the most part inside most of the time in the evening ....
that here I am again.
It was 30 Celsius outside today - just checking in :^)
As soon as I think I have this audiophile phenomenon figured out, a new revelation tells me how wrong I am. This hobby can be humbling. Perhaps a good thing...
I learned life is so short. Two of my top audio buddies have died in the last 6 months. My close audio buddy died today. We actually have similar audio systems. Wow. This has taught me to enjoy my audio within reason. Have balance and remember it's always music first!
mewsickbuff I was that guy in late 80s-90s 1-9 shift (our hours lol) .We had a brick building that was hard to find and it was a blast. we sold the ole' Stax headphones .The Discerning Ear .BaltimoreMd. (gone with the times)
#1 I learned after getting so many loaners from reps etc.The price has little to do with it's sound or quality (within reason). #2 How many times I believed what people told me and was disapointed #3 How cool so many guys are ,and how many pompass asses there are. #4 One mans floor is anothers ceiling #5 How much music I have been turned onto #6 Just when I thought I knew so much, someone knows way more. so be quiet and listen #7 Refer to # 3
I wish for the old days when you could drive a few miles from your home to a brick and mortar building and audition many different components in the flesh. It took 5 pairs of headphones, (all ordered somewhere online and recommended by others) before I found the 6th pair I call my ear-mates.
The HE-6's make me smile each time I put them on my head. I've realized (through the purchase of several warm items-HP's & amp) I don't like anything that leans toward the warm side of neutral UNLESS I can find something else to neutralize it. I have a warm HP amp, but it's a perfect match for the HE-6's.
There's nothing wrong with searching for "Your sound." But once you find it, be happy and ENJOY it! Don't let other people's negativity change your satisfaction into dissatisfaction.
"How much bias everyone, including myself, is capable of. I used to be
easily lead by subjective reviews, my audiophile friends' enthusiasm or
my want for a particular piece of equipment to be "better", either
because of the hype or it looked more expensive. But a couple of blind
tests cured me of all that ... and saved me a bit of money as well."
How much bias everyone, including myself, is capable of. I used to be easily lead by subjective reviews, my audiophile friends' enthusiasm or my want for a particular piece of equipment to be "better", either because of the hype or it looked more expensive. But a couple of blind tests cured me of all that ... and saved me a bit of money as well.
Unfortunately I have learned that I cannot tolerate inferior sound almost anywhere I go. In other posts on the site I've mentioned how I have set up my girlfriend's house; Marantz 2250b receiver, Meadowlark Kestrels, Pro-Ject TT and Marantz cd player in her living room, Pioneer SX 1050 receiver and Usher bookshelves in the bedroom - both because she had gawdawful all-in-ones with cassette players previously.
Now I'm no fool when it comes to appreciating music in any setting. An am/fm mono radio on the beach will do just fine, and has for many, many years. I still remember hearing The Allman Brothers "Eat A Peach" on the beach through my older brother's Grundig radio and it was glorious.
When music reaches out it ain't never the equipment...
I just bought a Geneva Model M all-in-one fm/ipod thingy for her kitchen because she has this nasty am/fm/cd/cassette player in white that has yellowed to the point of no return. (I had this product before and it's far better than what she has. Personally I prefer Peachtree Deepblue2 for outdoors.) I'm not telling her about it, I'm simply going to switch them out and wait for her reaction.
Being in the wine business I have found that this hobby is as subjective and confounding as my livelihood. I've had all the wines you can imagine in my tenure, and then some. The first growths, the cult wines, the garage wines. I've listened to vintners, experts, sommeliers, Masters Of Wine, the whole megillah,
Sometimes a glass of wine is just a glass of wine...and should be. I remember how utterly mind-blowing a late 60's vintage of Beaulieu Vineyards Georges de Latour Cabernet Sauvignon tasted one night amidst a gaggle of wine freaks, but I remember with equal fervor that bottle of Lancer's Rosè I knocked back with Mary Beth one moonlit night on the beach waaaaay back when.
Sometimes the Allman Brothers sound great out of a crappy radio on the beach, sometimes on the gear I have in my living room.
I must confess...I actually had a Bose Wave radio in my office once,
I love music and gear EQUALLY! .... and that's OK. We love music as an art form.... but good gear is an expression of art too. Ask anyone who designs or builds it. I admire of the form, function, and beauty of good speakers and electronics. I like to interact with my equipment and my music. I like equalizers.... really good mastering equalizers..... because not all music that I like has been mastered equally. I tend not to like most "audiophile" music.
I very much dislike the trend of boxes with too few knobs... or worse, no knobs at all! Walk up to a stereo from the 70's-80s, and any idiot could operate it..... most new equipment today has a just a couple multi-function knobs or buttons.... you need the manual to get any sound out of it. I want to flog the industrial designers of today!!
I like to turn knobs that affect sound.... that's what I know about me. .... and that's OK.
It's taught me that I'm an audio nut! I'm OCD big time. Some of this stuff just ain't worth it. It should be always about the music first. Enjoy what you have instead of the stuff you don't.
What it most definitely has taught me is that any person who has any intention of reproducing sound similar to a concert hall event in their home while evaluating high end audio equipment must use classical programme material; anything else is laughable... You're just fooling yourself . You might as well get another hobby!!
Great comments. Very interesting. Yes Chayro that one made me laugh. Have not purchased any audio in over two years, wife luvs this and told me we don't need a " musical subwoofer". What does she know about subwoofers?
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