I nominate MC for both Fox News hifi and chief virtue signaling correspondent.
Lack of Female Representation
So who can explain the near lack of females in our hobby? There are far more women discussing football than audio, by a long shot. There are a lot more women into fixing up their cars as well. I just can’t think of a hobby, other than ours, where representation is so close to zero.
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millercarbon To be perfectly candid this thread strikes me as virtue signaling of the highest order. It is sexist in the extreme. If we want to attract more people to the hobby then fine, attract more people. The minute you start slicing and dicing people into classes, well then you can no longer say people are people. You have denigrated the divine individual to no more than a member in a class. There’s a word for this and it ain’t good. So you lost me.I think Millercarbon is trying out for Tucker Carlson's job. |
To be perfectly candid this thread strikes me as virtue signaling of the highest order. It is sexist in the extreme. If we want to attract more people to the hobby then fine, attract more people. The minute you start slicing and dicing people into classes, well then you can no longer say people are people. You have denigrated the divine individual to no more than a member in a class. There’s a word for this and it ain’t good. So you lost me. Especially since I am quite certain this is virtue signaling with zero chance of anyone seriously considering the question. Because that would call for noticing this: We recently had several threads expressly created for the sole purpose of aggrandizing music that is misogynist. Not just aggrandizing, calling it masterpiece level music. Even though no one can find so much as a single lyric that is not demeaning to women. One of the more famous ones, even though it was in French, turned out the woman in the song was- get this- masochist. She was masochistic and so she went with the macho dude she knew would mistreat her. This is what they came up with when asked expressly to find a song that is not misogynist. We are talking just about women here so we won’t even go into the racism, profanity, and drug abuse glorification aspects of rap. So you want to attract more women, you got your work cut out for you. A public rebuke of the people who contributed to the rap threads will be a start. I know, fat chance. That’s the thing about virtue: painlessly easy to signal, incredibly painful to actually embody. |
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The wife has a very nice system that she keeps in the living room. For a while she had a Linn Sondek and still has a decent selection of LPs. Yeah, my high end system, coupled with the fact that I have a special room for it, does garner its share of flack from her. But what can I say? We met at the record store. |
It's just not this hobby, it's all hobbies, except those hobbies that women are more attracted to, like maybe doll collecting, etc. I race cars, motorcycles, karts, and sailboats. There are a few women in each sport but we'll never see a 50/50 mix. I don't really care about the underlying reasons, it just is. |
You guys are close. Now lets see what we have.. Ladies for the most part like the music not the gear.. Most ladies like to move around when they are listening to music. That's right we listen they DANCE! Me I just joined the party 50 years ago and haven't set down yet. As for thinking the people here were a bunch of women, I didn't think that at all, I thought it was more like "girly man". A bunch of little boys AND girls... BUT little when it comes to name calling.. LOL About a "FUSE"! Might as well as committed an act of WAR... Taking one side or the other. I think "BREAKER", I take no side. I take MY SIDE! Expensive cables, I love expensive cables. I just don't like paying for them.. SO I make my own. I take no side. I take MY SIDE! Every problem I've encountered in my audiophile life has an answer, SO FAR!.. My answer.. :-) That's right, TIME TO FEED THE CHICKENS!!!! Regards |
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@ghasley +1 As a gross generalization, women like the music and personal relationships, and men like the gear and the science behind it. Even though none of our systems is in a "dedicated" audiophile room, my wife has no interest in messing with the main system but she loves to play the garage/outdoor system, which is a simple streamer running Roon connected to a dac with integrated volume control - one remote for on/off and volume, and iPad for Roon, so it is easy to operate and she is confident using it. She would never consider posting on Audiogon, which she would find tedious, boring, and a waste of time, but she is way more interested in her relationships with family and friends and sharing photos and stories, in person, on the phone, or on Facebook. |
So many of the system photos on this website show a cluttered room where a concerted effort to create a shrine to complexity is anchored by a single chair. Too many in our hobby are more interested in equipment rather than music. Few women hang out in rebuilding your carb forums but they still enjoy driving a car. In general I would venture as a group they find balance a little better than the average audiogoner. |
1) They just don't care 2) They focus more on music than good sound 3) They don't give a sh*%^&t about electronic equipment in general 4) They don't like nerds & the mansplaining of audio jerks ("my toy is bigger/better than your toy bla bla bla"). 5) They feel intimidated by blinking lights or the complicated looks of equipment 6) They are wiser in general, so they don't understand the "audiobug" we have been bitten by and why we are autistically searching for the last bit of performance. 7) Even if they are interested, they don't like it when they can be "blamed" for liking a men's hobby. I love to see more women in audio, but you cannot force diversity. Representation is not a fixed goal IMO. Each their own. |
Women just don't like men.. Except my Mom, she was perfect, yes she liked music. No they broke the mold.. UNLESS it's your Mom, then you know she's perfect, likes music and they broke that mold too.. Just Moms so far. So if you're lucky you get a twofer. A Mom that just happens to be a wife, pilot, referee, coach, nurse, cook, LOL add what you want.. Audiophiler, I guess you better off than most. DANCE. Now you know why there are so few... Dance Amigo... Hat on the floor, as I slowly walk around the hat to the beat of the music an my faithful K-9 follows me.. I stop and slowly back around the hat... Olay..... |