May I recommend an informative read and a profound movie to all who love music. First, "Musicophilia", a book by Oliver Sacks. He is a pre-eminent neurophysiologist who wrote this excellent book on the psychology and neuroscience of hearing, and the understanding of music both physiologically and emotionally. He writes about loss of hearing, how differently we experience and compensate for alterations in hearing loss, stroke, trauma, etc. It is as informative as it is easy to read on a large variety of complex topics for the layman and non-neuroscientist. Many real-life examples, reference and footnotes. Second, the excellent and very moving movie "The Sounnd of Metal" is guaranteed to immerse you in the hellish world of profound sudden hearing loss and the emotional struggle to regain some hearing.
I found it fascinating to learn about the hearing loss experiences of other people: how it happened, how it altered their hearing, how they and their brain compensated for it, and whether or not hearing loss improved or evolved.
Hearing isn't the same for everyone by any means. It may range from our natural ability to hear, our preferences, how our brain interprets and processes cochlear impulses with it numerous interconnected neural pathways, and (of course) our source material. Our hearing abilities are forever dynamic: trainable as audiophiles and musicians, or diminished by age, medications, trauma, environment, etc. I had near perfect pitch, and in an instant, I traumatically lost 70 dB of hearing above 500Hz. Despite medical treatment, continuing to listen to music through my high end system or Bose clock radio (car audio sucks because of background noise), practicing classical piano, protecting my ears, seeking out a music-specializing audiologist and ENT, and finally numerous trials of hearing aids (costing $6-10k), I have been partially successful in improving my musical experience. Equalization helped little, as I have both loss of hearing, and what I hear is muffled and distorted so as to be raw, grating and irritating (For example, the attacks on playing my lovely 9-foot Bosendorfer are nearly intolerance, so I play by feeling the keys - braille-like?), and wearing "noise canceling" headphones. I used to listen in the dark exclusively (intensely focusing on the music, image depth and soundstage, the interpretation and performance, etc). Now I added an AWOL short through projector and 120 inch screen located just behind the plane of the Apogee Diva speakers and JL subs. By not focusing exclusively on hearing, and by adding HD video, I can add visual info that seems to mask my attention on distorted sound! Hence, my musical experience is often AV and enjoyable in a different way, altering how my brain interprets and filters out musical distortions and noise. I still can hear the soundstage, and can identify a good recording, just not how good reliably.
One does not ponder the obvious, so I'll state a few items! My take-home audiophile message is (1) protect your hearing, (2) experience music at reasonable sound levels, and then rest your ears (3) train your ears and brain to listen critically early in life, (4) invest in a pleasing and musically accurate system, (5) expect hearing to change over time (loss of high frequency details and cues come first by age 45) and (6) be flexible and explore different ways to adjust to hearing and interpretive changes that will occur gradually, and sometimes that happen instantly!
I highly recommend the above book and movie! They will truly add to your listening pleasure and understanding! The best to all! Joe