My wife passed yesterday


I just wanted to share with my Audiogon brothers that my wife of 20 years passed on 10/25/14 from a heart attack. She loved good audio and good music and she supported me in my hobby at every turn. I haven't been able to listen to any music since her death, but I hope I will find comfort in it going forward. She never at any time criticized me for spending so much on audio and she always thought I should have what I liked. She was a rare individual and she will be missed by many people.
chayro
Hello Chayro,
You and your family have my sincere sympathy and I know this is a devastating event in your life. You'll always have the love and happy memories of all the things you and your wife enjoyed and shared together. I've been married for 27 years and I don't take any of it for granted. Chayro I know that you will miss her deeply but I'm sure she'd want you to be happy and continue to enjoy the rest of your precious life.
Sincerely,
Charles,
My Deepest condolences and May her soul Rest in peace. You are fortunate to have her.
Chayro,
I can feel your pain as I know what you are going through. It is not going to be easy but remain strong, positive and take good care of yourself.

You have to be able to move on from this becuase no matter how hard you make this to be, she won't be coming back. I am sure she will be happy to know that you are still enjoying a hobby that you both pursued together.

God be with you.
I'm sorry to hear you are suffering from this loss. It will get better, and you will find solace in the music you loved together.

Music will always be there for you.

Best regards, and hang in there,
Dan
Chayro, I'm So sorry for your loss. It is tough and sometimes impossible to move on after such a loss, but please do.
Sorry for your loss pal, It's hard to loose, but stay strong and don't stay alone. Internet is OK -- it's plenty enough of us here in the forums, but not enough to get social. Get together with live friends and/or relatives if you have chance.
Do not consume heavy and greasy meals for the next several days. Lots of fresh produce, dairy, white meat, fish will keep your mood stable.
Chayro,
I expressed my condolences in another thread as well, but I wanted to say once again that, like most people of my age, I have experienced the loss of loved ones, and my heart is with you. I hope you have the love and support of those who are close to you, and that you are able to feel the support coming to you from your Audiogon Family.
Very very sorry to hear this, Chayro. I second all of the thoughts that have been expressed above so beautifully, and extend my sincerest condolences.

--Al
Chayro,

My heart goes out to you. I have had serious losses these past years and understand the grieving you are going through. God bless.
I lost my wife about 12 years ago. When I think of her it still hurts, but there is much pleasure in this world and after your grief subsides, take advantage of the glories that await you. Do nothing financially, until you are ready to move on....it will get better. Good luck
Charyo, my thoughts are with you and yours. So sorry for your loss.

All the best,
Nonoise
Chayro, sorry to hear of you wife's passing. My parents and my sister recently passed and I understand what Schubert says about there being no ready made template to follow helping us deal with the reality of life after those close to us die. Cherish your memories of her and I wish you strength and resilience in the days ahead.
Chayro, my wife passed 7 years ago. Feel what you feel, do what you want , there is no blueprint for grief .
That said, often takes time,a week, a month , a year for the reality of death to sink in. Every situation is a law unto its self.
God Bless her and you .
Dear Chayro: I wrote you a short note on another thread this AM but I am very sorry for your loss and, through this website, you have a friend in me. Stay strong and concentrate on all the good times.