I still remember the time I had finally gotten a really great (for me) setup: Brand new 25wpc OTL tube amp, Reference 3A DeCapo I speakers, Pioneer RT-909 tape deck, Music Hall 7 TT with MC cartridge, and a $1K dac/preamp that was supposed to be SOTA at the time but I hated the sound of it (bleeding ears is the best way to describe it).
Anyway to make a long story short, I was listening one night, everything sounded fantastic, and I remember turning my head a fraction of an inch, and hearing a BIG change in the highs. Hmm, what the heck?
Tried turning my head back and forth repeatedly and yep, the change was very noticeable and easily repeatable.
I have never since been super-fussy about perfect highs (except like OP finding a way to eliminate sibilance), realizing that if a big change would occur from turning my head a fraction of an inch, then chasing perfection was a losing proposition unless I went permanently to phones...