@vonhelmholtz nice system. I like Wilson speakers a lot. i am not looking for bone rattling bass. Just a bit of added support for my B&W 802's, in my large room with high ceilings.
I think how you described the setup of your Rel's is exactly how you are supposed to have them set up. Crossover set lower to seamlessly integrate, with subtle boosting of the low end.
Are you finding your Rel's to fill in the lower frequencies sufficiently? Or are you finding that your Sabrina X's are still thin in their lower range, before the Rel's kick in? Do the Rel's seem to integrate well and provide the bass energy and extension you were after, or do you think the bass could have been better somehow?