I think the reason we all don't agree is that we are all looking for a different kind of sound. You have guys that want a rock concert in their living room, guys that want to duplicate a plane crash, string quartet lovers, and other types of sound all presented in different ways.
I seek a very natural, 3D image but with a taste of forward projection and a tad more bass than is truly accurate. A pair of Cerwin Vegas isn't going to scratch my itch. But there are times I would be happy to rock out a song on that type of speaker. That's why we can't all agree. Everybody wants something different than what others want.