Do speaker wires have to be the same length for each speaker?

Nice if viable but not always possible.

ok another question, can I splice 12 ga. to say 14 ga. wire? I don't have a high end system, just don't want to spend $$ on a roll of wire if I can avoid it. Old Pioneer sx980 w/ klipsh forte ii, standard A/T turntable + cambridge CD player.

Yes, you can do it. Won't hurt a thing. Will save you some money. Then maybe some day later on down the road you get something better. Until then, relax and enjoy.

Maybe it makes a difference if one line is 250' and the other is 4'. I like to have them at the same length for the superficial symmetry thing.

It won't make a difference in any normal setup. But my OCD could never handle the asymmetry... 

Same length speaker cable 

not necessary!

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