You've got to test by a process of elimination. Put the connections back the way they were. No swapping. Is the amp getting hot now? If not, you are back to where you were.
Disconnect the RELs from the amp. Now swap the speaker wires. Does it get hot now? If not, reconnect the RELs. Now what's happening?
(Check to see if the RELs have a phase control.)
Disconnect the RELs from the amp. Now swap the speaker wires. Does it get hot now? If not, reconnect the RELs. Now what's happening?
(Check to see if the RELs have a phase control.)