Cajunpepe, this is a little hard to respond to since your question is so huge and unspecific. You have already made up your mind about a lot of your gear, too. If you wanted suggestions for a phono stage, for example, you could just post on that subject and you might get more responses.
I personally have never done what you seem to be proposing to do, that is, buy all the gear and then play it all together and see if you like it. Perhaps I have the wrong impression. Maybe you have heard your speakers with the Cary V12s--that's a nice amp, and should be able to drive almost anything. Maybe you have heard your source and preamp together...
( It has been very rare that I bought more than one component at a time. Whenever I did buy a component, I always had the sound of my current system in mind and a notion of how I wanted it improved. Each new piece was a step towards a goal, and luckily I had the sound of much better systems to refer to along the way. )
It looks as though you're sitting there with some very nice speakers and a Rotel pre/pro and you don't know how they sound together, let alone with the other gear you have planned. Maybe I have that wrong. Please correct me if so. Anyway, to answer as well as I can given my small understanding of the situation, none of the gear on your list looks bad, and it should work together OK. I wonder if the pre/pro is at the same level of quality as the rest, but you're keeping it, you say, so I didn't say anything.
Maybe someone else can do better...
I personally have never done what you seem to be proposing to do, that is, buy all the gear and then play it all together and see if you like it. Perhaps I have the wrong impression. Maybe you have heard your speakers with the Cary V12s--that's a nice amp, and should be able to drive almost anything. Maybe you have heard your source and preamp together...
( It has been very rare that I bought more than one component at a time. Whenever I did buy a component, I always had the sound of my current system in mind and a notion of how I wanted it improved. Each new piece was a step towards a goal, and luckily I had the sound of much better systems to refer to along the way. )
It looks as though you're sitting there with some very nice speakers and a Rotel pre/pro and you don't know how they sound together, let alone with the other gear you have planned. Maybe I have that wrong. Please correct me if so. Anyway, to answer as well as I can given my small understanding of the situation, none of the gear on your list looks bad, and it should work together OK. I wonder if the pre/pro is at the same level of quality as the rest, but you're keeping it, you say, so I didn't say anything.
Maybe someone else can do better...