Sounds like the person at the "mail order" outlet you bought this from is not all that knowledgeable. With that NAD amp which has an internal, common ground it is just fine to connect these amps via speaker level inputs.
For others who might read this thread, you do need to exhibit some caution as some dual mono designs and obviously mono blocks can be an issue. You don't want to create a common ground in the sub between two amps. This will negatively impact your day and at best, you will be searching for fuses.