We usually specify the -3dB point for filter settings.
A lot of audiophiles start off being "purists" of a sort, trying to get the sub to do as little as possible and then end up switching to a higher setting because of the improved clarity and depth.
Even with large speakers I’d recommend 80 Hz or so as the crossover point for sub and speaker. It’s hard to set precisely without measurement or without knowing how fine grained your controls are. You may benefit from a LP filter slightly lower than the HP filter.
If you are using them with a subwoofer, I also suggest plugging these speakers. This will improve the crossover function as well as increase their dynamic range.
One of the big advantages of using a sub is being able to use EQ on the sub alone, so the less your mains are doing the more control you have over the bass.