Hearing aids for audiophiles or musicians?

Got diagnosed with hearing loss and tinnitus a few years back due to a medical condition. Given options of surgery to removed the calcifying bone and replace it with a titanium "bone" (50/50) or hearing aids. Told at time that the loss would be gradual at a undefined rate of decline. Held off due to perception it "wasnt that bad"and fear of surgery as well as being told that no hearing aids existed that would help in listening to music. Now due to a couple of recent events and my wife's "urging/nagging" as she has grown tired of repeating things, I have decided I should try the hearing aid approach. I recalled reading some threads on others in the late 60s having similar issues and references to better quality aids that were used by audiophiles and musicians. However, search of the threads hasnt surfaced those responses. So, since most of us are apparently older does anyone have similar issues and have found successful solutions? Realized that buying some new gear maybe was not going to solve some of my hearing as it was more a problem with the "user" and I might be better off putting the dollars into the final link in the chain. ENTs out here in Hawaii dont seem to be up on the latest so I am open to travel to see a Dr too.