I’ve been in this crazy hobby for 50:years, so I can sympathize with your position.
I suggest you visit your local high-end bricks and mortar dealer for a series of auditions within your undefined - to -day budget….I think you will be quite pleasantly surprised at what his tailored options will provide.
There is a well-travelled paradigm in blindly upgrading that needs to be reinforced .
At an ill-defined price-point strata of say starting around $3000+, an ethereal “80 - 20 Rule” presents itself. What it means is that when moving up to pricier gear, comparing added price to added audio performance quotient is not a linear matrix. Rather, you may.have 80% of the performance of the upgraded / much pricier units, but you have it now at 20% of the upgraded cost outlay.
TAKEAWAY
Choose if it’s an AVR or 2-channel that suits your needs. BUT …AVRs south of about $8000+ do not .,,and cannot .,,, compete with a quality build 2-channel modest system performance at a modest peer budget.
Arrange auditions at a quality high-end dealer for a hands-on demos . If you have been out of the explosion of quality option choices for an extended time, your past experiences ( and faves) are very much supplanted by significantly better performance options of today, and you don’t have to blow the wad.
I have three 2-channel audio systems ranging from $1,500 to $50,000, and a $20,000 7.1 HT / movie system. These are all discrete systems in the house.
(1) HT multi-channel with its manufactured 7.1 soundtracks are not a comparable to a quality 2-channel audio. system, HT multichannel is either Hi-rez movies or select multi-channel prime PBS audio performances.
(2) 2-channel audio system enjoyment is never a direct $$$ pricepoint comparison , Frankly I spend 80% of my time in my “B” 2.1 system at $5000. Is my $50K “A” system better performance wise? For sure, but it’s in a different room and enjoyed usually differently…when I’m in a different chill-out demeanour with about two fingers glass volume of a 32 year old premium scotch.
Choose wisely.