Teo_Audio- WOW, that was a GREAT post. One of the best I've ever read. In such a small word count you explain the issue of hearing vs measurement in a nice nutshell. I love the simplicity of your description: an "incomplete science".
I have been demoing high end audio since 1975. I've heard just about every weird anomaly and made about every dumb error you could make in system set up or design. First consumer, then live sound reinforcement, now pro level recording studios. I have heard very smart people say very dumb things, such as the composer who can write a movie score but insists his speakers are buzzing and defective when it's something in his room; like the home audiophile who is convinced his speakers suck when it's 100% room problems; like the producer who thinks he makes better decisions at 120dB SPL or the mixer who cannot hear the obvious power compression in his old passives after working all day. I've heard great speakers sound absolutely awful in one room, brilliant in another room. As you say, the mind plays tricks and audio/acoustics is not a simple black and white science.
Brad