The perception of "slam", for example, has more to do with phase characteristics, not just drivers in a single speaker, but when more than 1 speaker is in a listening space, as would be the case with stereo or multichannel. Its an engineered solution present in a couple of brands inside pro audio...about which most "audiophile" brands have little to no clue ( i.e., the latter would prefer to keep spending up the clueless tree)
Your point about "hifi" bass and what it is / should be about is...
I do agree in principle, but I do like some slam too, and I’m not resigned to the two being mutually exclusive.