@immatthewj thanks for the clarification. It wasn't your fault, I am easily confused. Your explanations are always very thorough.
I am looking up Y splitters now on Amazon.
@grislybutter , I've actually used 'Y' splitters for something I was doing with my HT setup (way back in the days of Dolby Prologic when I had a HT set up) and I don't know why I didn't mention that before. Something about 'Y' splitters from preamp seems intrinsically impure to me, but thinking about it, it cannot be as impure as "another crappy box" (with a pair of pots) and an extra pair of interconnects that were not there before.
And also, just out of curiosity I feel compelled to ask, did you try speaker wire out to sub and then out to speaker on both the left and right side? (In other words, treating each sub/speaker as an extension of each other?) Just wondering if you did and how it went. . . .