I had this problem and it turned out to be a faulty center channel cable. However it it is more than one system in this case so the common denominator has to be the cable box, but the OP has done a lot on that end. More information might help. First, what is processor for the second system? Second, is it always the same network? Third, have you tried playing music only in multichannel?
For the heck of it, I would try changing the center channel cables. Also until the problem is sorted out, change the settings on the processors to two channel stereo, and you should get a more even mix of music and dialogue