I happened to hear a system with Mcintosh separates by complete chance. I sat down and ended up getting lost in the music and after 30 minutes the owner came up behind me and squeezed my trapezius muscles (neck/shoulder) to find they were both relaxed and my jaw was not clenched.
You absolutely nailed the point of music. If I want to be blown away by an intense music experience, I'll go to a live show. If I want a purely analytical representation of music, I'll go the studio where I work and visit the mastering suite down the hall. Between sitting behind the console and sitting in on mastering sessions to check mixes, music being analytical to hear everything is not the point for me because I just want to relax with the music, not hear someone's hair grow through the speakers and celebrate that as a metric in audio quality.