Hello Mr. Snipes. I think much of this depends on which you feel is more important to you, HT or music. I tried getting decent music from my HT and was never happy, so started my journey through the audiophile sickness.
So it's no surprise I'm with Unsound on this one. The Haydns are good speakers [I had them in my home for a weekend], and I think a DNA.5 or DNA1 mated to a tube preamp like my Blue Circle BC21 [it doesn't come with HT pass-through, but it can be retrofitted] would help you get that big, smooth sound for blasting Pearl Jam and techno. For me mating a solid state preamp to a solid state amp for that type music might be a bit to strident, that's why I suggest a tube pre.
The Bryston amps you're considering are also very good. I'm using a 4B to drive my subwoofer and like it a lot.