Does loudness play a part in your appreciation?

Absolutely right.  You can’t reproduce  a symphony orchestra In your living room. Even if you match the decibel reading level it will not sound the same.

Either my meter is broken or my ears are too sensitive, but listening continuously at 80 decibels is deafeningly loud on my system, which doesn’t distort no matter how loud I play it.

0 -70dB Normal piano practice

70dB    Fortissimo Singer, 3’

75 - 85dB Chamber music, small auditorium

84 - 103dB Piano Fortissimo

82 - 92dB  Violin

85 -111dB Cello

95-112dB Oboe

92 -103dB Flute

90 -106dB Piccolo

85 - 114dB Clarinet

90 - 106dB French horn

85 - 114dB Trombone

106dB   Tympani & bass drum

94dB    Walkman on 5/10

120 - 137dB Symphonic music peak

150dB   Rock music peak

This is just wrong in that it considers neither distance nor directionality.

The sound emitted from a woodwind expands in a whole different set of directions than a brass instrument where the sound comes out the bell or strings where the body is the resonating cavity.  Volume at a mic is affected accordingly.

Are we really to believe that an 8’ Steinway at fortissimo would be drown out by a cello or an oboe?

@rvpiano 

When you say 70dB where are you taking that measurement?

At the (speaker) source, X feet away from the source?

At your listening position, if so are you seated or standing and how far above / below your ears are the speaker drivers?

Also, since you specified classical music - is 70db an 'average' reading throughout a piece, or a crescendo or lull reading..?

For myself, I generally find listening at around 80dB to be the 'sweet spot' in my particular listening environment (18 X 40 ft room, approx. 12 feet from the speakers, most musical genres) and this equates to about 1 watt per channel of output from my system.

I have noted that, specifically when listening to classical music, I find it more sonically pleasing to lower the volume slightly - as I feel like the changes between soft passages and louder parts seem more abrupt and less subtle to my ears, than for example jazz or even moderate rock music...

What frequency weighting parameters are you using? They’ll return different results. A, C or Z weighted?