Good discourse? ... and like somebody else mentioned ... to gain perspective from all the different viewpoints on display.
Why do you have to cop such an attitude? It's guys like you that cause some people to not want to be a part of the interaction here.
Some of the judgmental stuff that's said around here comes off as being mean spirited. We're all entitled to our opinions and gaining different perspective on how to handle a deal that's gone bad is potentially helpful to someone who's yet to make a deal.
I spent 25 years going to AA meetings to learn how to not drink, and it always amazed me how such a large group of such dysfunctional people could experience such long term success as a group, and as an organization, for such a long period of time.
They've done it b/c of what's called The 12 Traditions, which is a set of Principles laid out sort of as the ground rules, of operation. The very last words of the last tradition reads: "ever reminding us to place principles before personalities".
Just think if we did that around here how much of the mean spirited stuff wouldn't happen. I'm referring directly to the smarta** comments people make.
Guess it would be asking too much to just be nice.
roxy54 chill dude