Was I Expecting Too Much


Hi everyone.  I'm looking for a heading check with a situation I encountered yesterday.  

Background:

I'm planning to upgrade my turntable later this year - Q3 is my target.  After my research, I've narrowed down to AMG and Brinkmann.  I was able to audition an AMG Viella yesterday, and was looking to audition a Bardo or Taurus for comparison.  I know my thought of trying to fit in a Brinkmann demo was last-minute, and some dealers are particular when it comes to appointments and allowing them time to setup their demo.  

The Situation:

So I called the local Brinkmann dealer and inquired to see if a bardo or taurus happened to be setup.  The salesman I spoke with said they had both, and he was going to check if a demo was possible.  After a few minutes, I get a phone call back from the owner who seemed rather dismissive of my request.  I explained that I'm currently doing my research and looking to hear some demos to help down-select, and that my purchase would be a few months from now.  He asked for my budget which I found strange as I already stated what I was interested in demoing.  Then the conversation turned to what gear I already own, which I understand sort-of.  Then the owner basically said it doesn't make sense for me to demo anything now and to call back when I'm ready to purchase.  

How am I going to know what I want to purchase without demoing the options?

Was I expecting too much by asking to hear equipment that I'm interested in?  My opinion is a sale isn't guaranteed and an audio dealer, just like any other dealer, needs to invest some reasonable amount of time to capture a sale.  You don't capture all the sales, but I didn't think I was being unreasonable in my request and certainly was not trying to waste anyone's time.  I was pretty transparent with where I'm at and I guess he was reciprocating my transparency by telling me to go away.  I felt "less-than" by this experience.  As if I wasn't worth investing any time into.

Thoughts?

 

cbl117

@waytoomuchstuff 

Huh?  Since when is it not ok for a consumer to say “I’m shopping for”?  Since when are dealers immune from having to compete in a market economy where price and service are key components of a consumer’s buying decision?  You seem to be suggesting that the consumer should, in effect, tell the dealer that he/she is going to buy from the dealer no matter what.  And that, to me is upside down, and, respectfully, crazy.

@mdalton

My point is that during the "interview process" there are certain key words that throw up a red flag and indicate that the potential customer is a "shopper" and not a good prospect. How this is framed and communicated matters. The dealer may be cautious and protective of time and assets, perhaps (based on past experiences). But, not crazy.

I hate to say it but most of them want you to come in and listen to one song and walk out with $100k in product. All paid at retail price. I have never had my ultimate experience which would be being turned loose with the equipment that I want to listen to with no one standing next to me. It doesn't happen in my experience.

@waytoomuchstuff 
 

Again, I am going to have to respectfully disagree.  There is no “interview process” in this transaction.  This not akin to a job interview where the employee and employer - in the best of circumstances - have something closer to equal power in the relationship.  Instead, this is a case where the consumer has money that the dealer wants.  Yes, the dealer has something the consumer wants, but the dealer is not unique in that regard.  A much better analogy would be when I hire a contractor to do work on my house.  I suppose there are some contractors who walk away if they discover that I’m talking to other contractors - “shopping for” other contractors? - but that usually means they are way overpriced and/or not to be trusted (and maybe just a little bit crazy, lol!).

F___ him!!!  Buy your new TT from a different place and make sure he knows you bought it.