XLR connection between Accuphase and Denafrips

You're fine, all XLRs are wired the same, well I've never found one that wasn't.

@lordmelton @nothelle Just so you know, in the US pin 2 of the XLR is non-inverting ('hot' is a terrible term to use as it implies the pin 3 connection, often called 'cold' is somehow related to ground, which it is not) while pin 3 is inverting. 

In Europe it is common to do it the other way 'round. In any event its no worries- plug and play. Not surprising you hardly heard any difference when inverting the polarity of the system. 

Thanks all, that’s what i need to know, any configuration won’t damage my system.  I’ve been testing over and over and i swear they all sound the same

You don't have anything to worry about regarding potential damage to your system, it's only absolute phase that would be impacted which most listeners have trouble detecting. If you want to correct it for peace of mind you can simply invert the positive and negative speaker connections on BOTH speakers. As long as the Denafrips is your only source the system would then have correct absolute phase. 

Fortunately both Denafrips and Accuphase have button for phase setting to reverse this +/- soni don’t have to mess with the speaker cables.