@jc4659
I have a deHavilland type pre, yes.
The word "neutral" is anything but neutral. It’s more like a Rohrshach test that exhumes what people find important in what they listen for in their systems.
Your idea of comparing with vs. without a preamp is useful.
Neutral is not that useful a word, especially given how differently preamps can sound. For example, when I compare two preamps I’m testing, there are differences which come out that are fairly significant. [See photo below of my buddies DIY preamp built around the Burson Audio Buffer using really good caps and parts vs. a low cost L.Pass 2.0 Mos FET ] The DIY is just better in every regard. But neutrality is not at stake.
(FWIW, the L.Pass 2.0 is an amazing bargain. Dead quiet, good imaging and instrument tonal accuracy, good dynamics. $154? Who can beat that for the price?)
Live listening experiences can vary a lot. Sometimes, I find myself questioning whether I’m sitting in the best spot. I have sat 7th row center and I have sat 35th row off to the right. If I sit close to the bass section in an orchestra, I bemoan how "bass-heavy" everything sounds. It’s not balanced enough. Is that a lack of neutrality? Compared to what? -- that’s the question. Here, the answer could be (a) compared to 7th row center or (b) compared to my rig. In other cases, one venue is, itself, worse than another -- or my rig. But "better" and "worse" and "neutral" or "non-neutral" all have to be indexed to a set of criteria or they’re not helpful words -- they’re wobbly words.