Recently acquired a used set of mint SHL5 Plus 40th Anniversary with TonTrager stands at a decent price which I consider a much better value compared to buying both speakers and stands brand new. Purchased the set without ever auditioning any Harbeth speakers prior. I based my decision primarily on the collective experiences of everyone online and understood the strengths and weakness of the brand. Most importantly, one needs to know their priorities and preferences for sound. My music preferences mirrors the OPs and listening habits not needing SPLs beyond 85dB, Even when demoing to F&F, there's no need to crank it up to show how great a system sounds unless you and your friends are into same loud concert SPLs.
Harbeth brand is not for everyone. Luckily, it is for me.
No regrets here. I can see myself enjoying this kit for years to come.