sounstage too big bad thing

You're getting good advice.

Playing with speaker orientation/location to lock in the new soundstage the way you want is definitely the first thing to experiment with before changing anything else.

I used different thickness shims 1/16, 1/8, 1/4, 1/2 MDF to change heights so I didn't have to adjust spikes with each change, and for quick check I stand and change the height of my ears to find the height that seems best.

In my experience your cables need to burn-in. A larger soundstage is a good thing but new cables will go in and out of focus as you cycle your system. New cables can take one to two hundred hours to equalise. After the cables come up,like others have said adjust your speaker placement.

Juancgenao,
When ever I try new speaker cables I find I have to repossition the speakers because the sound stage does change with the new cables. You my only have to move them a little like change the toe in or bring them closer togeather.

OK, Hevac1 thanks for you comments, after moving things around and experimenting with different speaker configuration,
removed my audience E PC,from my power conditioner and installed and old synergistic PC, that took care of most of the over bloated sound stage, lost some inner detail in the process, but much more focus and body to the sound,
having and audition this weekend, and almost guarantee one of my fellow audio friend will walk out of my house with the XLO.
fine cable, but wont' put anymore effort trying to change it's sonic signature: