I'm not familiar with Benchmark DAC3 but I have owned a NODE and I do the the Bluesound interface.
When I upgraded from the Node, I selected a Moon Streamer/DAC. Moon's makes numerous streamer/DACs and the streamer module in the 280D for ~$3k is the same one in their top of the line unit that is ~$18k.
I like the simplicity and the interface was almost as good as BlueSound. I use a combination of TIdal direct, Roon and Moon's MiND2 interface.
Depending on your goals and budget the Moon 280D is a great unit in my experience.