I’ve had heat pumps for at least 35 years. The heat pumps have been very reliable. The condenser on my last one not so much (the external radiator core).. only lasted 11 years. I simply have a maintenance contract with the company that installed it. They charge ~$20 / month and come out once a year (pre summer) and spend several hours and check everything.
I like outside Portland Oregon… so high humidity in winter… but never a problem. The variability of the air handler and pump… is great… much overall less noise.
I research the highest reliable unit… buy it, then don’t worry about it. I’m retired… I try not to worry about anything.
can you have the outside unit moved a little ways away from being right outside your listening room?
Also, I got the thermostat that I can control from my Iphone. So I can shut it off during a listening session. Also, when on a trip and having forgotten to put it in the “away” state… I can do that from anywhere… and warm up the house before returning.