hi Brian,
if you really want your significant other to like the "look" of your equipment rack check out Zoethecus racks. their light maple racks, which i use, are absolutely beautiful. unfortunately, the Zoethecus web site does not have their home theatre racks pictured, so i'm not sure they have a wide one like you need......but if they do (and you can afford one) it would be the way to go.
i also use the Zoethecus amp stands, but in a light cherry finish to match my amps, which are also beautiful.
www.zoethecus.com
if you really want your significant other to like the "look" of your equipment rack check out Zoethecus racks. their light maple racks, which i use, are absolutely beautiful. unfortunately, the Zoethecus web site does not have their home theatre racks pictured, so i'm not sure they have a wide one like you need......but if they do (and you can afford one) it would be the way to go.
i also use the Zoethecus amp stands, but in a light cherry finish to match my amps, which are also beautiful.
www.zoethecus.com