@jeffreyw
Does your wife like the way the system sounds now? Does she love music? Does she listen critically? I'm asking with utmost respect.
My wife has phenomenal hearing but she never sits down in front of our hifi system to listen critically or casually for enjoyment. Our home has an open floor plan and music is in the background for her. I play almost every genre except metal, rap, and pounding electronica- mostly classical, both light and heavy, jazz, folk, other acoustic, world, etc.
She danced professionally for many years and has heard a lot of live music. I will often solicit her opinion when I change something, whether it be amplification or even cables. My wife doesn't care about the usual audiophile stuff- "sound stage, imaging, second or whatever order harmonics," and so on and so forth, but she is very aware of the overall SOUND of the music. Is it warm, is it smooth or is it harsh and strident-is it pleasing to the ear- does it sound somewhat "real"- is it non-fatiguing? All relative and subjective, I know, but for me her comments are valid and useful.
I took a look at your Kefs and agree that they are quite attractive, but these days there are a lot of other speakers with great visual appeal.
Anyway, I'm following this thread and will be interested in learning how you resolve the issue.