"If this application to audio is accurate, it indicates that what we hear and how we listen are profoundly influenced by how we talk about it, argue about it, interpret it".
Well, this doesn't just apply to audio but to every moment of our lives. We are constantly "talking, arguing and interpreting" about experience, not to mention, harboring expectations, all of which gets in the way of simply "experiencing our experience". Those who are not engaged in this process are known as awakened/realized/enlightened beings. Those who've had glimpses of this may have also found that there's "nothing special" about it-- that it's the most natural way to be. . . if only our conditioning wasn't in the way.
In terms of audio, if we constantly hold some sort of ideal sound in our heads whenever we hear music, how well can we actually "hear what we're hearing"?