You are correct. You do not need HT pass-through. You can use any unused input and simply calibrate the HT setup using a pre-defined position of the volume control on your pre-amp. When I've done this in the past, I used Top-dead center of the volumen control as the point where I calibrated the HT setup and sat the volume dial each time I played HT though the system.
Admittedly, HT pass-through, especially if controlled via the remote, is a nice feature. But it it completey unnecessary. It's just a nice convenience.
Enjoy,
TIC