ebay vs audiogon

hi doug,welcome to audiogon.

i have several reasons why i dismiss escro as a buying/selling tool & i'll explain them.

as a seller i refuse to use escro for these reasons.

1 i can set up a safe cod where the package is shipped care of the buyers local ups store where he can inspect the contents at considerable less cost than escro.

2 setting up a escro deal takes quite a bit more time to do than using a simple cod.

3 the buyer gets several days to audition my gear in his rig & refuse to pay for any reason including buyers remorse & because he dont like the way my gear sounds in his rig, buyers will tell escro anything they have to in order to get the deal killed.

4 just putting these words(escro accepted)in your listing will instantly put you on the list for every con man on the planet asking you to sell to them using fake escro,when you check your mail & there is 20 or 30 offers every day all requesting escro its not a "minimunal effort" to cross check this many offers.

5 it takes forever to get cashed out on a deal from escro.

i cant think of a single reason that would make escro appealing to any seller unless the seller has zero or very low feedback or is selling his gear at premium prices to make up for all the drawbacks to his end of the deal.

now for the reasons why i dismiss escro as a buyer.

1 sellers who accept escro are less willing to give a good deal on the gear & in most cases will ask a premiun price in order to make up for all the added hasel & risk of returned gear they are taking.

2 cod is much cheaper than escro & just as safe & much faster too.

i learned the hard way by loosing a ton of cash to con's but in the long run it was cash well spent,i refuse to buy from anybody who is not a proven seller unless its pick up or cod,no other way.

there will always be a few people who dont mind using escro to sell their gear but i can assure you that allmost all established sellers will not use escro unless there is a premium charged to compensate them for accepting terms that do not benefit them in any way at all,they might not tell you their charging a premium but it will be reflected in your final buy price.

my dismissal of escro as it pertains to my buying & selling of gear has nothing to do with my post where i said "escro is one of the fastest growing scams there is",my comment on that was meant for other buyers.

alot of us joke about all the spoof email we get asking for fake escro but in reality its not a joke,these scams work & they work great,even though we all get the same kinda scam email these vultures are not looking for us they are looking for gullable & inexperienced buyers who are lulled into a false sense of saftey by the whole escro deal.

whats easily spotted as a scam to us looks like a safe deal to alot of people & most of these buyers are just like i was when i first started buying,barely able to use a computer & surley not capable of using advanced research tools,even google is advanced for alot of buyers

you were correct that the seller who's email i posted made mistakes but they were not what you mentioned,you can demo the gear for a buyer till the cows come home & have him sign recipts too but none of that will stop a charge back,the seller should of only accepted cash for an in person pick up effectivly taking away the scammers ability to rip him off in the first place.

my whole point in this entire thread was to point out that being verified was only good for a buyer & is very dangerous to a seller to have himself verified.

after doing well over 200 deals between ebay & here at audiogon ive seen it all with escro & charge back scams taking as many victims as money orders & cashiers checks.

all i can do is point out what works for me,just opinions from a guy who has done alot of deals & been burned too.

seeya.

Bigjoe - Thanks for your very informative welcome to Audiogon. I have two comments and a question.

Comment:
Although I am a recent member of Audiogon, I have been reading the Discussion Forums, particular Miscellaneous Audio, for almost two years. Every post I have read that mentioned escrow just referred to it in passing. Yours is the first post that discusses how it works in practice and examines it in detail from both sides. As a seller, you’re not worried about being scammed but don’t want to waste your time weeding out scam offers and having lookey-loo buyers audition your equipment. Perhaps you could discourage the scammers by stating in your ad that the only escrow company you will use is ***********, but I don’t see an easy answer to the problem of the equipment being auditioned. Having to pay the return shipping fee may deter people deliberately trying to audition the equipment, but it won’t deter a legitimate buyer who sincerely intended to buy the piece and then found out it doesn’t transform his system as he had hoped it would. Paying a shipping fee is a lot less than paying $2,000, $4,000 or more for a piece of equipment you no longer want. The only thing I can think of is a penalty payment (to be deducted from the buyer’s refund from escrow) if the equipment is returned for any reason other than damage, but that might be an incentive for the buyer to allege damage or actually damage the equipment so as to avoid the penalty.

Comment:
I agree with you 100% that when equipment is picked up in person, payment should be cash or a cash equivalent. When dealing face-to-face, each party should get its side of the bargain concurrently. The buyer gets possession of the equipment and the seller should get final payment. If either of the parties is nervous about dealing with a large amount of cash and a branch of the buyer’s bank is nearby the place of delivery, before exchanging the equipment for a bank check, the seller can go with the buyer to the buyer’s bank and watch the check being drawn, thus eliminating all questions about forgery (I almost made a purchase from a seller who lives nearby and was prepared to offer to do this). Now that the buyer has no ability to mess with the payment, the buyer might want assurance that the equipment at least works before turning over a good check or his cash. Playing the equipment in the seller’s system would serve this purpose. That’s not an audition, because it’s not in the buyer’s system, and the seller’s system would be run only for a minute or two to demonstrate that the equipment works properly - it would not be a listening session.

Question:
You say that you like to be paid by C.O.D. Several posters who used C.O.D. have told of being ripped off by NSF checks, phony money orders or phony bank checks that are given to the carrier. Sometimes the carrier’s delivery person doesn’t follow instructions about pament and sometimes the payment is a forgery. How do you deal with this problem? Anyone else have a comment about C.O.D. payments?

hi doug,yes a standard cod is flawed & unless im buying i refuse to use the standard door to door cod,when i am buying with door to door cod i only use ups as the driver has been to my house so much that he now allows me to open packages real quick to check contents,the flaws in a standard door to door cod are that the people at ups fail to tell shippers that the drivers are not allowed to take cash & money orders & cashiers checks are easily forged.

fedex is much better at a door to door cod as they do accept cash but most drivers will not allow you to inspect the contents leaving a buyer exposed to opening up a box of bricks.

the best & safest cod a buyer or seller can have is for the package to be sent care of the local ups store or fedex office & for cash or credit being the only payment options,this allows all buyers the chance to inspect contents before paying & it also gives sellers witnesses in the event that the buyer try's a charge back scam where he says the gear sent was the wrong item & eleminates a bad check scam.

every payment method is flawed so its hard to say which one is best or safest,there will always be risks for buyers,ive learned to look at the entire picture a seller presents before making my mind up how i will pay,if the seller is active in the hobby & shows that he's trading gear with feedback from reputable hobbiests then chances are im ok with paypal but if the seller shows that his involvement in trading high end gear is limited then cod is the only way i'll go.

when im selling its easy,no gear goes anywhere until all payments have cleared a seperate account i have set up & that includes all paypal payments.

there's no easy answer to all of this but with time & after doing alot of deals it gets easier to trade.

mike.