You can use miniDSP here, but as a hybrid approach. It’s going to be very very good for you.
Set the preamp output to: Crossover: On, 80 Hz
Sub output: Crossover: OFF
Set your subwoofer to highest possible crossover.
Run subwoofer out to miniDSP. Use MiniDSP for setting the low pass filter and EQ for the subwoofer, which is where it matters most.