Pedrillo,
Get an Oppo Universal player and connect it directly to active monitors. The Oppos have remote controlled variable volume control, so the two components would create a complete remote controlled system that plays CD, SACD, DVD-A and DVD video. Unless she need a tuner or other source, you would be set with good sound at a very reasonable price.
Or you could go the iPod route and connect it directly to a pair or active monitors.....
Enjoy,
TIC