Use recordings that you are familiar with. If you have a Firebird Suite/Petrouchka/ Rite of Spring coupling in your collection that should cover transients, sound staging, bass…the usual audiophile stuff.
Can you enlist a 3rd person who can make choices as to which Order you are listening? You shouldn’t know in advance what order you are listening to as that will alter your perceptions. Your wife should also be blinded as to the order