Why do so many sellers take offense to offers on their listings?


If you have the 'offer' feature activated then what's the problem with any offer. Comments like 'lowball' offers will be ignored just gives me a bad vibe. If your item has been up for sale then there is no insulting offer. I've made deals with people starting far apart and coming together. If you haven't noticed the audio market seems to have come to a standstill. Any opinions?

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I have to say this has been an interesting and useful thread. I made it all the way to the end so far, and that doesn’t happen very often.  So many good comments.  

I’ve been an A-goner for a while now but rarely buy much, other than accessories.  I’ve resisted the temptation to sell my old gear here partly because of the rude way people talk to one another; it sets a certain tone that makes me wonder if getting rid of something could possibly be worth the potential aggravation.  Audiophiles are such a sensitive bunch ; ).  

Communication IS key.  
If an offer is ignored that speaks for itself and I think it’s unnecessary to reply in a negative way.  However, a polite response that you are looking for something closer to asking price, continues the dialogue rather than ending it.  

I gotta say though that things are definitely different now than they were some time back.  I searched a few topics recently like subwoofer settings I think and was instantly struck by the difference in tone.  The older the thread, the more pleasant the conversation.  After reading quite a few threads from 10 - 15 years ago I realized I was not imagining it.  

My point is that while someone’s lowball offer may seem rude, there likely was no bad intent, and there’s nothing to be gained with a snarky response.  More importantly, doing your part to keep the conversation agreeable, benefits all of us.  

Now that that’s out of the way, does anybody need a 20 year old 7.1 ch AVR that weighs 65 lbs and has no HDMI switching? 
Lowball offers accepted.  
 

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I respond to low ball offers by informing the buyer I only had one at his offer and he just missed is offer being accepted 10 minutes ago. Sorry. But I have another one  at a little higher price if he wishes. It has worked.   This fun thread reminds me of the question, what is the worst thing in the world?  answer,   when 2 poor people owe each other, one can't pay and the other can't wait.  

Many different ways to go about selling but I only deal with the not offended type. It’s just as easy to reject an offer and offer up an acceptable price.

Either name your price or put it up to auction.  I don't understand why this is an issue.