Annoying sounds from cars at stop light

Sounds like you've had too many experiences of that description (I don't hear it that much down here in a much less urban area, but it still happens)!  The answer to your first (rhetorical) question is simple--the driver causes his stereo to be like that.  The second is harder to answer of course, but if you look at the success of the Beats headphones you might think young people like to feel the bass in their music (think of the scene in Ruthless People where Judge Reinhold is selling the kid on the Dominator speakers), and like their music played loud  I remember hearing my first high-end speakers and wondering where the bass was, when in fact I was hearing a lack of mid-bass bloat for the first time.  A lot of pop music seems to be geared to sound better with bloated bass as well, but maybe that's just me?

Low bass has long wavelengths and can move thru walls or car doors. If an audiophile wants deep bass, a large room is required to let the wave develop and keep in the same room. The interior of a car is tiny and most bass is lost to the outside. You hear the bass louder than the occupants of the car, that is why they turn it up even more..

@oddiofyl (great name, btw) that chart is a great share, thanks! It's interesting reading about the extremely high decibel levels. Crazy stuff!

The bass must sound louder outside the owners car then in it or they would get sick at their stomach. 

I wonder if they put a little dampening behind the drivers if that would help.