I have heard the Ayre at a dealer and my buddy has a X01 D2 and they are different and as I have owned neither I will offer this advice...
The rest of your system will define the better choice to your ears. Let's assume that you are like the average person and $5K isn't "walking around money" therefore I would advise that 200KM (2 hours or so) isn't that far when that much money is on the line. The big benefit of your local retailer is he should allow you to take home the Esoteric to see how it performs in your system. It may not sound radically different at the dealer as opposed to your home but it could sound different enough that it doesn't meet your expectations...
The rest of your system will define the better choice to your ears. Let's assume that you are like the average person and $5K isn't "walking around money" therefore I would advise that 200KM (2 hours or so) isn't that far when that much money is on the line. The big benefit of your local retailer is he should allow you to take home the Esoteric to see how it performs in your system. It may not sound radically different at the dealer as opposed to your home but it could sound different enough that it doesn't meet your expectations...