At one time I had this romantic system, totally drawn to the music, and then at some point I became aware I was only listening to certain types or recordings. This probably went on for a year or so prior to this awareness. So I started listening to a wider range of recordings, the defects and flaws that had been there all along suddenly became salient and I could never NOT hear those flaws from that point on. Point is I had subconsciously stopped listening critically, had a wonderful time while it lasted.
So that system goes bye bye, build the next system only to satisfy my critical listening mode. This goes on for some time until I come to realize this system not emotionally engaging, this system then goes bye bye.
So now I've been to both ends of the scale, ever since that realization I've finally been able to build a system that engages me from the critical, analytical and emotional states or perspectives. When you finally experience engagement or appreciation for all three states of consciousness you find contentment. I purposely seek engagement on all three levels, never want to go back to the need to ignore some listening perspective or avoid conscious, aka critical listening.