What Bass Mgmt. & Room EQ Scheme For Me?

Though still a newbie to bass management, and even more so computer controlled room eq, I don’t think that products like DEQX, Hapi and some other popular schemes would offer me enough of what I’d prefer or even basically need. Either their DACs have been said not to sound as good as many other standalones or they don’t have the connectivity I may need.

I have a passively crossed two way speaker system. Knowing the designers as I do, I don't think these speakers suffer much group delay. The sealed midwoofers acoustically roll off soon below 70Hz. I want to build a pair of passive subs for below the midwoofers. Those subs will have paper cones and may be either sealed or dual driver H or W-frame or slot-loaded open baffle subs. Though this system's for music only, if     I go with OB subs they may not have quite the desired bass extension, so I would want to blend my pair Rythmik 12" sealed servo subs below them. In any case, I also want to use the Rythmik subs since 3 or 4 subs-particularly in my small 14 ft x 19 room-should yield a flatter low frequency response, as Earl Geddes and JBL have long independently concluded.

 My Rythmik subs have true balanced inputs which is fortunate since for proper placement they will likely require cables of about 30 feet.

My Windows laptop (or desktop) is my music server. While I'm sure there are some decent sounding desktop cards today, standalone DACs world likely offer a much lower noise environment for the DAC’s clock than inside a desktop chassis, along with more room for much better circuitry. And I'd prefer to use   my laptop rather than my desktop.

My plan was to purchase a respectable sounding DAC (e.g. Exasound, Bryston, PS Audio), use its balanced outs to feed the Rythmik subs and wye-connect the unbalanced outputs to feed my mains amp and the amp driving the passive subs.

The Rythmik plate amps have LP filters at two slopes, phase, level, along with EQ if needed. But plate amps being what they typically are, I want to use the Rythmiks for below an upgraded Bryston stereo power amp driving the passive subs. That way the plate amps won't color the sound of my 300B SE tube amps driving my mains.

But how then do I get the same control functionality for the passive subs as in the Rythmik sub plate amps-and do so while keeping signal processing and signal path length to a minimum for best sound quality?

Page 28 here says that I could feed digital audio from my laptop to this via USB. 

http://www.dspeaker.com/fileadmin/datasheets/dspeaker/AntiMode20DualCoreEng.pdf

And many standalone excellent DACs have USB. Then the Dspeaker Dual Core's RCA outputs connect to the amps driving the passive subs. Plus with this arrangement only one digital conversation needs to occur. And Dspeaker's electronics probably sound good enough to do room eq at least for below my midwoofers, where most room resonances are strongest anyway.

 But what kills that plan is that the digital audio received by Dspeaker and the system’s main DAC from my laptop via USB would need to be clocked simultaneously. But Dspeaker has no clock input, nor do any of these boxes with digital inputs. https://www.minidsp.com/products/opendrc-series/summary-table And except for a few (e.g. Antelope) most DACs don't either. Even if they did have clock inputs, a good clock generator may cost as much or more than a ~ $4K DAC. Or am I wrong and would the Dspeaker Dual   Core do exactly what I want without an external clock?

Then I thought of Merging Technologies' Windows compatible Hapi box, as suggested here and elsewhere. Used by the mastering house that digitizes classical analog recordings sold at stores like hdtracks.com,   the quality of its optional DAC is probably nearly as good as its optional A/D converter. And its output connectivity should work for me. https://vintageking.com/merging-technologies-hapi But it’s only available  as an 8-channel box and contains no DACs. And ALL 8 DACs are all on one board. Thus, with the box,    the board and breakout cables I'd be paying for twice as many DAC channels as I need. Plus, it has no   USB input, and an AES3 desktop (or laptop?) card to output digital audio to it via my pc would cost at least another $400.

ARRRGGGHHHH!!! I can’t believe that after all these years the computer audiophile market still leaves most of us having to dance that accursed A/D, D/A two-step with this http://www.dspeaker.com/en/products/anti-mode-8033.shtml or one of these analog input boxes. https://www.minidsp.com/product/opendrc-series/summary-table

Be that as it may, with Dspeaker or miniDSP AD/DA almost everything’s in the box and the software might be bundled tightly enough with the hardware making it relatively easy to use. But the only real consolation is that I'd be using either one for bass management and for room eq ONLY below my midwoofers. That way its two-fold digital conversions won't spoil what's feeding and pushing my main speakers.

However. even consenting to use either of these two clunky A/DD/A boxes, I still can't determine which    one has the better converters and which might give me the shorter and cleaner sounding signal path,    while meeting at least most of my functionality goals.

Or which other A/DD/A box might be a better sounding and/or functional choice?

https://www.google.com/search?q=ad/da+converter&num=100&source=lnms&tbm=shop&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiUs9bexP7TAhWBYyYKHXuKBWAQ_AUICigB&biw=939&bih=437

But how compatible would those presumably better sounding AD/DA models be with what kind of bass management software and “user friendly” room eq software for home use discussed here?

Speaking of software, DIRAC subwoofer management apparently is licensed or is otherwise compatible with miniDSP. It seems easy enough to learn. https://www.minidsp.com/applications/home-theater-tuning/multi-sub-optimization-with-the-ddrc-88a . But as most of you probably know, another compatible alternative to use with miniDSP boxes is http://www.audiovero.de/en/acouratedrc.php But I’m doubtful         if I could scale Acourate’s learning curve well enough. And REW also looks a little scary https://www.minidsp.com/applications/auto-eq-with-rew without a lot of help from here at this thread         and places like here. https://www.avnirvana.com/forums/official-rew-room-eq-wizard-support-forum.10/

 Unless there's a better sounding hardware solution for my situation than DEQX and most of the above hardware? Or, technically, how important is that considered to be by most here for bass management and for doing room eq only below 70Hz?