One update: SW1X has replied to me that they will consider customizing a DAC with i2s input configured to my DDC. This may be the winner, stay tuned. I did rule them out initially as being too expensive but they do have a range so this may work out, thanks for the tip Audiogon community!
Otherwise, since I am mostly happy with the sound of my DDC + Pontus II, I may just throw in the towel on the tube DAC direction and go for a Terminator 15th. From what I've read, and my experience with my Pontus I'll bet I'd be reasonably happy with it.