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Thumper’s Mother

I’ve been a member here for years. Increasingly, the discussions are peppered with cutesy comments and criticisms that reek of attention seeking behavior. 

Please offer more respect to those around here that are innocent hobbyists. They are here to have fun talking about stereos, not be taken to task. I suspect you do it because this is your only available audience. 

These are people. Some are dealing with tragedy, heartache, loss and loneliness. They are trying to forget about troubles and mean people, not engage them. 

If you don’t like a post, or agree with a topic, or have a problem with sentence structure or punctuation, and can’t be helpful and respectful, keep your mouth shut and your hands in your pockets. Go start your own perfect discussion or seek out a narcissist forum in which to contribute. 

I’ve read enough of this garbage to have earned my say. If more people would stand up, this would evaporate. It exists in real life only where it is tolerated. None of you would walk into a group of healthy men and pop off at the mouth. Some say you would I bet, but I know better. I’ve done it and highly recommend against it. 

And don’t give me the ‘can’t stand the heat’ business. Most all of you can be helpful and respectful if you want. Pearls of wisdom don’t justify disrespect. 

Let’s love each other and enjoy our hobby. Please?

uncledemp

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sns
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Social interaction necessarily involves human needs.

 

This being an audio forum, being informative or seeking information in regard to things audio serves utilitarian needs.

 

And then we have the psycho/social needs, and who know what needs lurk here! Affirmation and attention are certainly two of the stronger needs,  I see both play out both negatively and positively in this forum and all forums or human interactions. We'll never get away from this dynamic no matter how hard we try. Being ever mindful is a good place to start with people who have good intentions, slippage comes from lack of practice. Problem is there always a few who mindfully/willfully have bad or provocative intentions.

 

In a more benign vein, we have the mile wide and inch deep conundrum, vast majority of this all ephemeral or fluff. In other words don't take any of it too personal, this all just words vanishing into the ether of all the words ever spoken.

 

 

 

In any case, always good to see people bringing attention to these questions of human interaction.

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